Two months ago I was sarging at a local club, I was on a roll and pulled number close after number close, among those I kept up a little contact with a girl named Marie. I’d say she is about a 7, long legs, beautiful eyes.
Anyway, I didn’t really care about it, she was just someone I texted occasionally, this weekend however she asked if I wanted to have a drink with her and I said yes.
We went to a fairly busy bar, she bought me a drink, she asked me out so that’s fair right?
I few of our mutual friends showed up and we joined them, and I was great, I had the attention of everyone in the group,
I pulled a few good jokes which were highly appreciated,
I was active in the conversation and didn’t say anything stupid,
when I was alone with Marie, I ran a few routines, she was intrigued and responded just they way I wanted her to, she asked me questions and my answers were good, the night went on like this.
Anyway, here is the weird thing: throughout the night it felt like we where brother and sister all the time, there was no real attraction, usually I don’t go kino until I get the first IOIs and I never really got them.
I’m an experienced PUA and I usually have no problems with this stuff but I guess that’s why I’m surprised, because usually when the girl is not interested you can tell immediately, she seemed interested in all of our conversations but no obvious IOIs where visible. Like I said above, it really was like we where brother and sister. And I have never really experienced this before.
So here is my question:
Does anyone have any experience in this? What’s the girl up to and where do you take it from here?
FYI, This was 3 days ago and I haven't contacted her in anyway, and she hasn't been in touch either, this is not life or death but it annoys the crap out of me when I don't know what's goin on.
) so it's easy to laugh it off if it doesn't fly... Some people just have really low-profile IOIs... I think you could have run into one of those. I'd press it anyways. For the peace of mind, if nothing else... you would get a solid IOI or a IOD to deal with. In fact I try to assume interest as much as possible in this kind of situation. It's better to regret what you did than what you didn't do. 