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| Author: | dilequeno [ Sun Feb 22, 2009 4:21 pm ] |
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hey guys, i need some feedbacks about that situation. i'll sum it up as clearly as possible. MEETING PLACE: train, she sat on my left side and we talked for the whole train trip (1hour30). she's not really my type so i thought it was great practice. good parts: great test for DHV stories, she asked to keep in touch (asked for my facebook, i dont go on this so i took her phone number) bad parts:realized afterwards i still gave some DLVs, should have done more kino, i should have asked more questions (still cant tell if she has a BF or not!!!!) PHONE CALL 5 days later, i invited her for a drink the same day i called her, she said she couldnt. asked if she was free on sunday afternoon she said ok, and she finished "lets call each other later, im at work now". good parts: she remembered me well and sounded happy i called her, i showed value bad parts: i don't see any, it went good MESSAGE TEXTING: the way we ended the conversation, i thought she would call me in the next days. she didnt, so i texted her yesterday to ask if she was still ok and where-when to meet. she answered that "she is sorry but her parents are coming to visit but she will call me this week". i answered "see you next time then" good parts:i liked my 1st message, alpha style bad parts: couldnt find a C&F line to answer after those 2 negs she gave me (you got any examples?), dont like my 2nd message but i didnt know what to answer really... what i plan to do:wait for that call. if she doesnt call: it's a deadset to me i wont call-text again. if she calls: i'll meet her and go straight to the point, massive kino escalation... i feel like she already made me lose too much time so there's no way she'll LJBF me. and i'm looking for C&F lines to give her ... those C&F lines don't come easily for me, i always wonder if i am DLV, negging too hard or sound too needy when i find some... do you have any examples there? SO, the way i see it... i had a good feeling about her liking me-wanting more, im having second thoughts. the good thing here is that i don't expect anything anymore which often makes me more effective. maybe i'm overanalyzing but doing that good-bad parts on the sets i play makes me see where i need to improve. if you guys can tell me where i got it right-wrong, how to proceed now would be great for the next sets. thanks a lot. |
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| Author: | puajourney [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:52 pm ] |
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I think where you went wrong was not calling her within 2-3 days, and Tara has a great video as to why. To sum it up her life got in the way and now she's busy or met another guy. She could have completely forgot about you. Also, trying to "massive escalate kino" is a bad idea because she saw you 5 days ago, and she might have already lost the comfort level with you. You may have to go ahead and start A2 again. If not A1. It seems to me you lost her waiting to long on the follow-up and she's blown you off now twice it's a lost set. "Lets call each other later I'm at work" means you call her later in the afternoon and she waits for the call. GIRLS NEVER CALL GUYS. It's a DLV if they call you. Guys are supposed to call. It's a DHV since it shows confidence on the guys part. Also a Phone Number like Mystery said isn't a proper time bridge and you never even did a time bridge lets "keep in touch is weak" by anyone. You accepted her lets keep in touch that's no good you should have said something like "I'm going boating, hiking, out on the town, to a movie whatever! Then say you can tag along if you are up for it. |
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| Author: | puajourney [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:52 pm ] |
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I think where you went wrong was not calling her within 2-3 days, and Tara has a great video as to why. To sum it up her life got in the way and now she's busy or met another guy. She could have completely forgot about you. Also, trying to "massive escalate kino" is a bad idea because she saw you 5 days ago, and she might have already lost the comfort level with you. You may have to go ahead and start A2 again. If not A1. It seems to me you lost her waiting to long on the follow-up and she's blown you off now twice it's a lost set. "Lets call each other later I'm at work" means you call her later in the afternoon and she waits for the call. GIRLS NEVER CALL GUYS. It's a DLV if they call you. Guys are supposed to call. It's a DHV since it shows confidence on the guys part. Also a Phone Number like Mystery said isn't a proper time bridge and you never even did a time bridge lets "keep in touch is weak" by anyone. You accepted her lets keep in touch that's no good you should have said something like "I'm going boating, hiking, out on the town, to a movie whatever! Then say you can tag along if you are up for it. |
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| Author: | dilequeno [ Tue Feb 24, 2009 2:27 pm ] |
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you are damn right man! i've read lots of pua material but still in the process to adapt them on the field. i thought i played it good overall, now i clearly see where stands my main mistake. thanks mate. |
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