It's been awhile since I've posted and there's a few reasons for that but I'm back. A lots happened so let's cover it and get into yesterday night.
So I had a horrible 2 weeks major anxiety attacks couldn't stick any of my approaches slowly moved backwards until I couldn't even approach anymore. That's why I wasn't posting I'd go out 2 times a week for about 6 hours and not make a single approach. I started wasting more and more time on the Internet so eventually I decided to cut back on YouTube and social media. Started running and meditating instead.
Everything started to come around last weekend went to a music festival with my fuck buddy and her friends. Spending a few days with 3 hot bartenders really got me in the mood to keep doing pick up. I was making out with her friends and my fuck buddy said she wanted to have a three way with a random so now I have even more motivation. I sarge with FB and had a lot of fun interactions. But if you've read any of my previous stuff you'd know I'm not great at this yet
so that ideas on hold.
Now that I'm back in action I hit up toronto with some friends and realized again how far I've come with baby steps. Maybe you've had this problem too? Not wanting to leave your friends because you're "hanging out". I used this excuse so many times in the past and I still do. Last night tho I'd hit up any set I wanted because that's what "I" wanted. Friends were fine with that and as the night went on they'd actually join in the sets eventually we were all having just as much fun if not more.
So I'm hitting up around 75% of the sets I want. Sometimes my legs won't go but I'm still making a lot of approaches. The only problem right now are sets I think I saw to late. Maybe they walked passed and I think it'd be creepy to chase them so I let them go. That needs to be fixed at some point I won't know how they react unless I do it so I'm not learning anything by letting them go.
Now a few things I've been doing well and experimental stuff.
Approaching isn't as bad as before.
I can talk for 5 minutes straight improv.
Very comfortable early kino.
I'm a loud stupid funny person I used to be scared that people would make fun of me but really its my biggest strength I can get a whole 5 set to be laughing and everyone's looking over wondering why were having so much fun.
The whole interaction with girls is just more natural. Probably because I spent 3 days with 3 8~9s
I've been picking up the girls a lot... physicaly. IF I FEEL THEY'RE COMFORTABLE WITH IT!!! if they are it's always an instant laugh and raising of emotion.
never did this before and honestly it's a whole new game. I had successes and failures.
Going for the K close. This is something I want to focus a lot more on. I had 2 yesterday out of 4 good sets but timing and other factors I need more experience with.
Finally bar and club pickup... I hate these places. I spend most of my night on the street outside the venues but I'm limited. I need to get more comfortable in these places! I did manage a few number closes and a K close but when there were too many people I went back to street game.
So there we go. A month has passed and I've been getting a lot more numbers/ k close. I'm finally trying things out. I had all this theory I could never use because I never got past approaching but now I gotta start thinking about what's going on during the pickup.
Tonight's a new night gonna hit it solo. Trying new things to see what works for me!