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| Author: | Spartan X [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 11:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | What should I have done? |
Hey Fellas, Just a brief field report from last night and any advice to be offered. After my previous post and help from the fellow players I decided to never give any woman any power over me again. I already read Core Waynes book this week and will be going through it again. I decided to put some of his words into practice gain my masculinity and find my center. Anyways... Went to a club last night for a work party was getting attention from girls acting confident having some woman that i know well come over to our table for social proof and everything is going fine and gettig lots of attention from woman at tables nearby. I sat on couch and this HB8 knocks over our bottle and all the drinks fall into my lap making it look like I pissed myself. She apologized and ran to get me paper to help I used this as an excuse to neg her saying she is clumsy, or whenever she would walk by i would grab the table holding it real strong, or whenever she would hold a drink in her hand i would say careful she is dangerous etc... teasing in nice joking way. Then I asked her what her name was and said nice to meet you without introducing myself...she immediately asked me my name (sign of interest). We started speaking but was difficult to build rapport as her friends were constantly grabbing her to dance but any second she got she would come back and sit with me on couch. Anyway I get up to leave and tell her I g2g, and that I find her interesting and would like to get to know her better and that she give me her number so we go for a drink. She says I will see you here next week I say I don't come to this club better we meet somewhere else, she says I don't give out my number. I said ok cool and just walked away. All of a sudden she grabs my shoulder and turns me around and says "don't act like that" I said to her what? I gave you an offer and you refused what more do you want and just turned around again. I was standing there speaking to the colleagues getting ready to leave and I noticed she kept starring. I didn't go back to her or speak to her again she just walked by me and said good night. I said bye bye. Now I actually wanted to show that I didn't care as I really want to train myself to be able to walk away from a woman who isn't generally interested in me and not care. however I do feel this may have been a lost opportunity from her level of interest and body language. What do you guys feel I should have done? Or what should I have said to her after she turned me around instead of being cold and standoffish? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 12:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What should I have done? |
I think you did nothing wrong and it was great that you did the whole walk away thing ...most guy's would always comprise and lose value doing so. But, you still lose the girl at the end of the day, since you didn't exchange numbers. If it was me, i would tell her to get her phone out and to give it to me, I would say, 'fair enough, take my numbe, instead' - I'm pretty certain she would of texted you. She seemed to like you. You still maintain the contact and you still maintain that she is chasing since you have no way of contacting her so it forces her to chase you. (If she is still interested when she is sober) Also. When a girl's friends are grabbing her. You could of told your girl to introduce you to her friends. Compliment them all, especially the leader of the group and then say "is it okay if I borrow your friends for a lil time?" And then get them to decide. That way, they might leave you both be for a while to solidify things better. |
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| Author: | Spartan X [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 1:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What should I have done? |
Yeah you are right, since we didn't speak all that much her shields were up, I should have given her my number. Good to k ow for next time. As for other girls they were dancing non stop and any guy that was getting close they were just freezing g out by making a circle around each other but I get what u mean. Thanks for the reply |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Sep 12, 2015 4:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What should I have done? |
Quote: As for other girls they were dancing non stop and any guy that was getting close they were just freezing g out by making a circle around each other but I get what u mean.
Quote: You could of told your girl to introduce you to her friends
The point is, the girl that likes you is the key to the other friends. Her friends won't blank her friend trying to introduce you to them. It's the perfect 'In'.
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