PUA Forum :: Dealings WIth Hired Guns at the Gym

Well, I started learning pickup in 2014, but stopped after some girl whose hair I'd touched called the cops...and then the police, a couple weeks later, without me even recognizing her from when she'd gotten on.

I had lost my college place to practice, no one to sarge with, and no money, to boot, to say nothing of trying to stay out of the pokey.

Well, I'm employed, have a better frame of mind, and a little bit of moolah. I'm going to try again, and while I haven't been doing straight approaches, I've been practicing flirtation with the women I've been in contact with, and it's gone better than what I had been doing, and I think has helped my feel in the game. I know I'm supposed to do twenty approaches in one go, but the first and last time I did nearly got me arrested.

I'm easing myself into the right mood, this time, not anything cowabunga-stupid.

Thoughts?

Author:	Noitartst [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 11:34 pm ]
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I haven't done much active gaming, but I think I've done better actively flirting. I've got other priorities, but I'm still thinking of sarging quite a bit. At the gym, there was this one attractive gym instructor that I sequestered some advice from, the other day, about doing squats. The next day, or so, I asked again, and as we were walking over to practice, I thanked her for helping me "get my rear in gear," to which she laughed, slightly, and proceeded to ask if she knew my name, aright. After she finished, she thanked me for coming to her. Sounds like an IOI, if you ask me. Thoughts?

Author:	oceanx [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 4:03 pm ]
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Quote: . I've got other priorities So if a hot girl called you and wanted to fuck, you'd turn her down? Come on man don't make an excuse - you can always make time to meet girls. TBH the interaction you posted sounds like a happy employee doing her job. I wasn't there so I could be 100% wrong. As you know you can get IOIs up the ass if you just make a flirtatious persona part of your everyday thing wherever you are. Now get out there and make it happen.

Author:	Dragula [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 4:16 pm ]
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Here is an old post: Quote: Well, I started learning pickup in 2014, but stopped after some girl whose hair I'd touched called the cops...and then the police, a couple weeks later, without me even recognizing her from when she'd gotten on. I had lost my college place to practice, no one to sarge with, and no money, to boot, to say nothing of trying to stay out of the pokey. Well, I'm employed, have a better frame of mind, and a little bit of moolah. I'm going to try again, and while I haven't been doing straight approaches, I've been practicing flirtation with the women I've been in contact with, and it's gone better than what I had been doing, and I think has helped my feel in the game. I know I'm supposed to do twenty approaches in one go, but the first and last time I did nearly got me arrested. I'm easing myself into the right mood, this time, not anything cowabunga-stupid. Thoughts? Come on. Be immersed with pickup. You should be way past oneitus by now. Stop dabbling and come back to us when you're actively going out.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 4:58 pm ]
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Some Bros don't want to learn pick up, they just want a quick fix to get to that magical 'ONE". So as Homer Simpson says, they can say" Ooh, look at me! I'm making people happy! I'm the Magical Man from Happy-Land, in a gumdrop house on Lollipop Lane!" Do the work. We did.

Author:	Dragula [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 5:02 pm ]
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Quote: Some Bros don't want to learn pick up, they just want a quick fix to get to that magical 'ONE". So as Homer Simpson says, they can say" Ooh, look at me! I'm making people happy! I'm the Magical Man from Happy-Land, in a gumdrop house on Lollipop Lane!" Do the work. We did. +1 I made this thread recently to highlight this point: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=192004

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Author:	oceanx [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 5:29 pm ]
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Put in the work is the only way. Get rejected. Text 5 new girls and get no replies. Feel like shit. It's all part of it. It's better to feel something than nothing at all. And by and by you realize you are progressing. Before you know it you are seeing results. It's called climbing the ladder and it requires effort.

Author:	Noitartst [ Fri Aug 21, 2015 11:19 pm ]
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Okay, I guess I deserve this, for not being frank, about my life situation. I have Aspergers, and ADD, which have been a big problem in my life, for a long time. For the first time since 2004, when I graduated from college, I have a real job, working at Walmart. It's not a job I like, but it's money, and my second-highest priority. My first is launching a career, of some kind, and getting the right supports, to do so. Learning to seduce, like everything else, in my life, will come a distant third, or will untill my first two priorities stabiliize; I should have made this clear from the get-go, but did not. My second priority is at least functional, but my first is not. I have tried to sarge with my life out-of-focus, but it is hard. If I could at least get my first functional, I believe I would be ready for another push, but I am not. I am keeping my toe in the pool instead, and if that is being seen as wussy, that is nevertheless where I am at, take it or leave it.

Author:	Dragula [ Sat Aug 22, 2015 2:19 am ]
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Come back when you're serious

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