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| Author: | johnny878 [ Wed Aug 19, 2015 9:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Where did I fuck up> |
Date 1: Go out to a local bar. Ask if she wants to leave and go back to my place. We do. We hook up. I really had alot of fun. The only thing that concerned me was that she had a pending DUI and smoked pot daily while living at home at 26. She lived at home due to a break up in december. Night after date 1: She text me asking me out for the upcoming wednesday. saying she wants to cook for me. Day before date 2: I text her my address and a more or less subtle confirmatin text. Day of: no response for 24 hours. so I text . Never heard back, so I made other plans. She immediately triple text. saying she thought she responded and asked me out for the following friday. *Friday *: we go out. have fun. like one of my better dateswe barely kiss and she says we went too fast last time. she showed up to the last date 4 beers drunk. She ask me out for two days later. She texted me after she thought we had a connection Sunday: she text me saying she had a migraine. and can we postpone til tuesday. I was a bit annoyed as this was the 2nd flake in a week more or less. and i started to feel the wohle connection thing was bs. plus i didnt want her to keep flaking so i said wed figure it out. I texted her on tuesday and asked her out for thursday of last week. Thursday: She shows up and she is a bit annoyed all date about something. She also kiss's for only a few seconds. She asked me out for this past weekend. I ssaid yes, we will text about it tomorrow. and then she left and told me i didnt have to walk her out to her car. I thought that was a pretty blatant sign that something was up. like she wasnt feeling it or i pissed her off. so i asked her and shepretty much said that she thought i only wanted to be physical with her. and that the 3rd date ask out was a hookup date not a real date since i asked her over to my place for dinner. so i went from sex date 1. to taking her out on a nice 2nd date and her saying we had a connection. to her pissed off and losing interest/lost interest. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 1:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I fuck up> |
Quote: *Friday *: we go out. have fun. like one of my better dateswe barely kiss and she says we went too fast last time. she showed up to the last date 4 beers drunk. She ask me out for two days later.
Here is your clue. If they say they went to fast than they usually regret or feel bad at what happened. Here is where you messed up:
She texted me after she thought we had a connection Quote: Night after date 1: She text me asking me out for the upcoming wednesday. saying she wants to cook for me.
Make her feel validated after hooking up. Talk to her and give her attention. Tell her you had a good time and she won't feel like she went too fast. Day before date 2: I text her my address and a more or less subtle confirmatin text. After, this was just all down hill. She wanted to feel those same feelings she had for you at the start, but felt guilty about them since they weren't validated and rewarded. |
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| Author: | On A Rampage [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I fuck up> |
Quote: The only thing that concerned me was that she had a pending DUI and smoked pot daily while living at home at 26.
Sounds like she has other issues which are on her mind. This is going to affect her. She obviously doesn't make good decisions anyway
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 4:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I fuck up> |
Quote: Quote: The only thing that concerned me was that she had a pending DUI and smoked pot daily while living at home at 26.
Sounds like she has other issues which are on her mind. This is going to affect her. She obviously doesn't make good decisions anyway |
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