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| Author: | h0lmes [ Sun Aug 09, 2015 6:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Bad Boy or Nice Guy? |
Hey guys h0lmes here again, One day i was at class/lectures and i met this guy, tall and hot motherfucker the kind of guy who gets starred in modelling magazines and women say looks good. We were talking and we got to the point where we talked about women -typical guy stuff- as were both the same age and crap i was curious as to how many women he gotten it with, and boy was i surprised when he said he only had 2 women in his life! I mean i look like crap- my opinion on myself xD- but iv gotten more women than he ever had, so then i started looking at the differences in us that didn't contribute to any physical attribute. That only left me with our personalities, that what makes every human unique from every one else. If i had to describe his personality towards women id say he gave off a Nice guy vibe, while i trained myself to loose that useless trait for years and years. It ate me up, I then wanted opinions from women on whether they goto bed with a Nice guy or a Bad boy and i went collecting answers. All the answers were the same but one answer this HB gave stood out to me: "Bad boys are intriguing, i mean they are like mysteries and are always ready to up and leave, while you know the nice guys are always there for you and it kinda becomes boring" This was the essence of all the answers iv got, and this answer pretty much answered all my questions. For all the people who still didnt understand what she said with the answer, let me explain. Remember when you were in school, there was always this guy who didnt look like a model but kept getting more women than you could imagine? every one has met a guy like this in their life. How he did that? easy, He marketed his personality as class A+ GOLD. Thats just it, he had a damn irresistible personality. Women and men have different hormones that guide their instincts, men have testosterone and women have estrogen and being men we are creatures who are guided visually when it comes to beauty, we rarely think in emotions. While women handle attraction emotionally, meaning no matter your looks, the only thing she perceives to build attraction is everything besides physical attraction, meaning no matter your looks you can always land that dream chick with a good personality, it helps to look good tho :3 So what makes me get more women than that model like guy? PERSONALITY. And what Personality gets more attraction? read the answer i quoted above in red, If you are smart enough, you should be able to figure out what you need to up your personality. Who gets more women? Bad boys or Nice guys? Haha if you read this thoroughly you should have already figured the answer, but what works best for you i always say. |
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| Author: | Blacksky [ Tue Aug 11, 2015 9:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bad Boy or Nice Guy? |
I get the fealing that the guy you are talking about was nice but also shy or a push over. I believe yuo can get girls by being nice as long as you are being assertive, strong minded and confident. I don;t think you necesarily have to be a Bad BOy or a wanker to get girls. I think respectfull, nice but confidence is key. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Aug 11, 2015 10:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bad Boy or Nice Guy? |
Well. I kinda of agree with this post. However. Is this guy actively chasing women? Are those 2 women 'HB12's ?? Does he want the quantity to hook up? Or is u e very picky?? But yeah. I have met a lot of good looking dudes that have surprised me with the lack of action. It seems that the better looking they are. The bigger the ego and less motivation to approach or even make a move. Stick them in a day game approach and watch them freak out with insecurity. They are 'picky' as a way to self sabotage themselves so they don't have have to feel uncomfortable making a move..."she wears too much makeup, she is ugly" If you're a little above above average in looks. Above average with social freedom (AA etc), Above average in conversation, above average with escalating and leading....your love life is pretty much sorted and you can get quantity and quality for sure. |
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| Author: | Unfazed [ Tue Aug 11, 2015 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bad Boy or Nice Guy? |
Stop considering yourself a bad looking guy. Go to the gym, get a nice haircut, wear better clothes, and then change your mindset about yourself. I am completely delusional about my looks. Didn't use to be that way, use to think I was average looking. Now I consistently say things to women like, "Do you normally get nervous around really good looking Asian guys?" and "You're not doing that just to impress me, are you?" Women like guys who love themselves. One of my best friends from high school was probably the best looking guy I've seen. Girls were always giving him approach signals, smiling at him, falling over themselves to get his attention initially. He couldn't lock down a girl all of high school, dated a girl for 5 YEARS and didn't have sex with her, and didn't lose his virginity till 27. Yes, looks matter. Personality matters more. Who gives a shit. Work on both. Work on looks so you have higher standards for yourself. Work on personality so you have higher standards for yourself. |
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| Author: | h0lmes [ Thu Aug 20, 2015 8:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bad Boy or Nice Guy? |
@Blacksky you got a point there buddy, and thats what im talking about. Confidence is the key. @Dragula yeah man i noticed how most good looking guys cant actually take their game to the next level without crumbling, not exactly sure why tho... @Unfazed Haha then that makes 2 of us mate. Besides looking neat and approachable my game doesn't depend on my physical attributes, lol never was. |
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