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Author:  Sherlock.M [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  My day game journal
Small history about me

I am a 21 year old university student in Australia who started doing day game 4 weeks ago.
Right now, I am pretty confident in stopping a girl but don't know what to do afterwards.

What I do now

Do the front stop.
excuse me, can I tell you something really quickly? (she replies)
I saw you walking past by, and I think you are really cute. So, I had to come here and say Hi.

within the first week of day game this was all I could do and I go blank and the girl leaves.

Past 2 weeks I was trying to make assumptions about the girl to keep the conversation going.

If she is dressed creatively, I say "you look like someone who does something creative for a living"
or, you look like someone who stays in an office.

Then I make assumptions about what she does for fun. "you look like someone who loves the outdoors, someone who likes to read books with coffee. etc.

Then I run out of things to say and she leaves.

Theory side I follow

Earlier I fell into the trap of reading too much theory and not doing real work. I am over that now. I was following only one product "day game blueprint by andy and yad" Then see how it works, rather than cramming all this theory.

I haven't really posted online before. All game guys I met in my city tells me not to use scripted dialogues. They tell me to just go out there with a blank mind and speak up. I tried this was the first week but It doesn't work for me. So, I started coming home thinking about my approaches and writing down responses. what should I have said differently. But they advice against it. The problem is I am not good at conversation. I major in computer science and it is rarely social.

So, what do you guys think I should do? Keep practicing making assumptions. The general advice I get from guys is "get to know her, be yourself, if you run out of things to say just say that, etc.

But I am looking for advice on specific things to talk about.
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Jul 31, 2015 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My day game journal
Quote:
Past 2 weeks I was trying to make assumptions about the girl to keep the conversation going.

If she is dressed creatively, I say "you look like someone who does something creative for a living"
or, you look like someone who stays in an office.

Then I make assumptions about what she does for fun. "you look like someone who loves the outdoors, someone who likes to read books with coffee. etc.
Been watching some Youtube pickup vids I assume.

Try this; Talk about yourself a bit; it speaks volumes; shows you as a man of value.

To open, try talking about anything going on in the immediate area rather than the focus on her, her, her.

For instance: "Why is that fire hydrant green?" Or WHATEVER is going on / WHATEVER you see in the general area.

What you say doesn't matter anyway: Your eye contact and demeanor tell her all she needs to know that your intentions are not to be her BFF.
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