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Author:  rubi.pua [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Rubipua: My journey
Hi

I'm rubipua

I've recently started sarging seriously ( I've been going out for years, but not going out specifically to game). I've decided to go out 6-7 nights a week because I think it's the best way to get really good at the game pretty quick. The more you practice the better you become.

I'll be posting here my field reports. Here comes the first:

FR+: Monday 6/10/14

I went out alone as it's difficult to find someone to go out on a monday lol. I bought an offer to go into a nightclub with a group of people all together. I started being social, talked with a hb9 but I didn't know many things to say and also she noticed I was alone, so she left.

I made some male friends so I started becoming part of the group. When we arrived to the nightclub I started moving throught the dancefloor trying to make eye contact with girls. I noticed one hb7.5 was looking at me too so I took her hand and started talking with her really close. Typical stuff: what's your name, some jokes and in 5 minutes we we're kissing. We were making out all night, also been talking all night together, even she introduced me to her friends and them encouraged her to be with me alone. I tried to take her home with me but she said she was traditional and I should prove to her that I wasn't like the rest.

She said call me tomorrow and we can meet.

When I texted her the next day, I noticed she wasn't the same, she said I'm too tired from yesterday, let's meet tomorrow. When I texted her tomorrow, she said she had to be honest with me, that she had a boyfriend back in her country and that she didn't fell right doing this.

And that's pretty much it. I think my error was not creating enough rapport ( even thought we talked a lot) or maybe being to direct.

Anyway it was a good night for being the first :)
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 5:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
All I can say is learn PUA techniques, you can't just jump right in. Practice is good, but you need a background. I recommend learning Mystery as a basis, then stealth and RSD The Blueprint Decoded. Good luck!

Also too many newbies focus on Night game. Learn Day Game!

And I don't mean to sound like a dick (but get used to it, we're honest here), no you did not do well. If you try to take her home and she says no, then just move on to the next. Don't be too fixed on the income. You have to do a takeaway. "Oh, well I'll just go then," she'll regret it and then you just give her another chance. You need to work on your push pull.
Author:  rubi.pua [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 5:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
Quote:
All I can say is learn PUA techniques, you can't just jump right in. Practice is good, but you need a background. I recommend learning Mystery as a basis, then stealth and RSD The Blueprint Decoded. Good luck!

Also too many newbies focus on Night game. Learn Day Game!

And I don't mean to sound like a dick (but get used to it, we're honest here), no you did not do well. If you try to take her home and she says no, then just move on to the next. Don't be too fixed on the income. You have to do a takeaway. "Oh, well I'll just go then," she'll regret it and then you just give her another chance. You need to work on your push pull.
Hi

Thanks for the advice ;) I'm reading the book from Gambler and also one from Vin Di Carlo.

I know I didn't do well, I meant it was ok for a first day.

I will post the next field reports when I have a little more time.

And thanks really for the feedback :)
Author:  rubi.pua [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
FR++: Tuesday 7/10/14


I went out with a friend to a nice nightclub with terrace. We entered it with ( I think) good body language and high energy. We went straight to the terrace and there I noticed a really cute hb9 with 2 older guys. We start making eye contact, she starts smiling, comes to me and (seriously) ask for my shoes because they seem comfortable to dance. We start teasing and after a while I let exchanged my shoes for her shoes ( really AFC move :( ) The whole club was looking at us. She starts dancing like really sexy. After a while we go inside, we keep talking (she wasn't from the city, was staying at a hotel, was leaving in 1 day) and dancing really close.

At some point, I tell her I'm leaving so she either can come with me or stay there (I was bluffing)

She agrees to come home with me. At home we are in the sofa, we start kissing and things scalate pretty quickly. At some point I was fingering her, and in 5 seconds her face changed totally and she said, ok stop, let's go to sleep, you sleep in the bed and I sleep in the sofa. (last minute resistance for lack of comfort and rapport I suppose)

I thought she was joking, so I asked her if she was joking, and she said no I'm serious. I said ok you have to finish what you start and asked again if she was serious.She said she was totally serious. Then I said ok it's better if you leave my house then. She got pretty upset and left.

Big mistake: not creating enough rapport and confort with her.

How would you have handled a situation like this? Knowing it's a girl you are not going to see again...
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 11:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
Ouch, you did well and you know what you did wrong, you did well if you just got into the game. Gambler's Stealth is pretty useful, although it requires you to kino open on the dance floor. You did the right thing btw (she was wasting your time). Did she say let's sleep immediately after she said stop or was there some time? If she says stop just do a freeze out. Pull out a phone or do a computer or just do some work, say that you respect that she said no and that you have some stuff you need to do.

I normally day game. I haven't been in this situation but that's what I learned to do.

Also, it's a good idea (like you did, intentionally or unintentionally) to make the girll come to you. It increases your value.

And yeah, don't swap shoes.

You may want to kino escalate slower too, make her want it.

A few questions, so you're reading Gambler and Vin DiCarlo (I like gambler, haven't read DiCarlo), how far are you in those? Do you sarge in the day at all? You should be doing both (I can only daygame because I'm a broke ass college student).

Also, I highly advise you learn Mystery just for the general steps, then Gambler, and then RSD. RSD is pretty great. It get's women trying to impress you. RSD and Stealth go hand in hand, one is the direct stuff, and the other is the kino and subcommunication. One chick asked me what my dorm room number is and said she'd stop by. Anyway, supplement your night game with day game. The ASD's down and it's easy to do day 2's in case you're looking for a day lay, haha, that rhymes.

Anyway, good luck! I'm glad to see you didn't chicken out after your first post like a lot of people.
Author:  rubi.pua [ Tue Oct 14, 2014 10:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
Quote:
Ouch, you did well and you know what you did wrong, you did well if you just got into the game. Gambler's Stealth is pretty useful, although it requires you to kino open on the dance floor. You did the right thing btw (she was wasting your time). Did she say let's sleep immediately after she said stop or was there some time? If she says stop just do a freeze out. Pull out a phone or do a computer or just do some work, say that you respect that she said no and that you have some stuff you need to do.

I normally day game. I haven't been in this situation but that's what I learned to do.

Also, it's a good idea (like you did, intentionally or unintentionally) to make the girll come to you. It increases your value.

And yeah, don't swap shoes.

You may want to kino escalate slower too, make her want it.

A few questions, so you're reading Gambler and Vin DiCarlo (I like gambler, haven't read DiCarlo), how far are you in those? Do you sarge in the day at all? You should be doing both (I can only daygame because I'm a broke ass college student).

Also, I highly advise you learn Mystery just for the general steps, then Gambler, and then RSD. RSD is pretty great. It get's women trying to impress you. RSD and Stealth go hand in hand, one is the direct stuff, and the other is the kino and subcommunication. One chick asked me what my dorm room number is and said she'd stop by. Anyway, supplement your night game with day game. The ASD's down and it's easy to do day 2's in case you're looking for a day lay, haha, that rhymes.

Anyway, good luck! I'm glad to see you didn't chicken out after your first post like a lot of people.
Hi

She said let's sleep inmediately after saying stop. I don't sarge during the day, normally just trying to stay social and talk to everyone. I've decided to start sarging at night because I can get a lot more interactions in less time. Also for timetable reasons. I'm nearly at the half of gambler's book and just started vin di carlo's one.

Which book from RSD do you recommend? I'm also going to learn the M3 from Mistery, but trying to focus right now on practicing and losing anxiety approach.

:wink:
Author:  rubi.pua [ Tue Oct 14, 2014 10:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
FR: Wednesday/Thursday 8-9 / 10 /14

I'm not even going to comment on this because I made the huge mistake of drinking, and when you drink your game = 0, so they were disaster nights. But lesson learned 8)

FR+: Friday 10/10/14

I went to a club with some friends. It has half empty so my approach anxiety was really high (fear of everyone noticing me fail, have to work a lot on my inner game). I tried to open a 2-set but they stared at me like I was an idiot and left haha.

After that I found a HB 7.5 who was near the bar with her friends asking drinks, so I opened her (pretty lame opener like: hi what's your name or something like that). We started talking and having a good vibe, with good kino and I kclosed her.

After that ( and I remember my past mistakes of not creating enough rapport and confort), decided to go with her to the rooftop terrace of the club to smoke, and we were talking there for 2-3 hours. Her friends came and said they were leaving, I said if you want you can leave with them but she said she preferred to stay there with me. I tried to build lots of connection.

I didn't feel she would go fo a 1 night stand, and also I thought she was a really nice girl. So I decided to take her to her home and we agreed to have a date ( I'll post the FR of the day 2 another day).

I have to work a lot more in my approach anxiety, especially in sets :oops:
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Thu Oct 16, 2014 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
For RSD I recommend the Blueprint Decoded DVD's, not a book. Mystery can be a book, for Gambler it helps to see his videos of how his stuff works.

It's good to see you sticking with it. I keep on saying, don't just do night game! Day game is fun and easy. It's great practice and a great fallback in case you can't get an SNL. With night game you have to work fast, But day 2's are no problem for day game. It's more forgiving.
Author:  rubi.pua [ Fri Oct 17, 2014 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rubipua: My journey
LR: 13/10/14 Day 2 with hb7.5

I had a date with this chick for sunday, but I wasn't in the mood so I cancelled. Her friend invited me to her birthday next day so I decided to go. When we arrived ( we were in a group) to the nightclub, she was acting distant, allways using her phone,... so I decided to separate myself from her and start talking with her friends and other people. She noticed and came, then I said to her, I don't know what wrong with you, but if you don't want me to be here I can just leave ( don't know if this was a good thing to do or not). She said there was nothing wrong with her, but from that point her attitude changed to a more positive one. I managed to isolate her, we were dancing all night,kissing and having a really good time.

After that we went out, I moved the conversation to deep stuff ( feelings but trying to be dominant), with lots of eye contact and kino. I noticed she was getting aroused so I said lets go home, she said ok, we took a taxi and you can imagine the rest 8)
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