Damn... 7 Months... I can't even remember the instant lay I typed about above, but I do remember the date. it was a date from Match, and it didn't go anywhere. I've gone on too many dates to recall every one. Most of them are unremarkable; I either leave before the date's "over" or I have sex. Sometimes if I'm bored and the convo is decent I'll sit through it.
I'm back on SA... Most of my dates come from it. I really wanted to avoid it because it's messy (money being involved) but it's just so easy. It's more of something to do bc I'm bored sometimes and can throw around a little money. I have a LOW 6 figure savings, and live way below my means and I realized there isn't much to spend $ on. I reject the majority of women on there; If they have children/too old/or are not my type or ask for too much, or make it all about the money, I don't bother with them. The girls on there know that the men are well off, and a lot of them are college age. I'm also much younger and in much better shape than the avg guy on there, so I get a lot of interest.
The other reason I went back on SA, is bc I am on other dating apps like tinder & have no problems getting hot matches, but it's so hard to get replies/meet ups. I think it's just the nature of the app. I match easily with women I find attractive, but it often takes a ton of effort to pull a # and even then they are flakey. I have gotten 0 replies from the last 15 msgs I've sent (15 different ppl).
There is a relatively new dating app called coffee meets bagel, and I've been on it for at least a few months. I think I've had a date or two but I wasn't interested/attracted to them. I also deny most women on there. Again, I have no trouble matching with women, but they are sooo flakey/unresponsive.
I saw a woman a few weeks ago I had met around 8 months ago on SA, and I was just planning to visit and talk with her (explanation coming) but she liked forced me to fuck her and I didn't want to. She needs too much help for me to consider anything serious with her; she has 2 children by different men, no job, and is emotionally messed up. About the only thing she has going for her is that she is attractive.
Similar thing happened with this other woman, though she was a little better off... I was very attracted to her, but she didn't tell me a lot of things up front (bc we didn't know each other well, which I understand). Once she had stayed with me the second weekend we talked about a relationship. She tells me she doesn't live in the city (3 hours away) and that she has a child. She also doesn't have a great income. It died around new years, as I was thinking about what I should do (we planned for me to go visit her, as she had come out to stay with me 2 times) and I chose not to. I had to be fair to myself, and what I really want in a relationship. She is such a wonderful person and we got along so well... it's kinda sad. She is not on the same level as me in all the aspects that are important for a relationship.
Looks like I haven't talked about my "main girl," as I probably hadn't met her since I posted last: I met her some months ago and have seen her on and off. Our first meet I went straight to her place and had sex. We text every now and then when we want to see each other, but not consistently, and surely not every day. A couple months ago (after I had seen her a few times) she told me she was engaged and couldn't see me anymore. She later broke it off, and started seeing me again... So obv, she's messing around with other ppl. In the beginning, she told me she is BI. Right now, she is probably the at the top of my list as far as girls go; sex (wouldn't be seeing her if it was bad), dresses sexy for me, and is in very good shape, very petite w/ good curves. I saw her a few nights ago and she got all dolled up for me. She's very cute in her own way, and has a great body that fits well with me. We've shared a good deal of personal info, like she doesn't like dates, she's seeing another woman, doesn't like to kiss (recently though I've been getting more lip time by telling her how special she is to me). We don't ever spend much time together - I just go straight to her place, we chat a little and do it. Notably, she wouldn't make a good relationship partner, unless we both agreed we could see however many others we want, which is pretty much the way it is now.
A few months back, I met a young Hispanic girl again at the big campus here, went straight to her place and fucked her. She was cute, but not attractive enough for me. I was not interested in seeing her again.
I went on a date with a young college girl the other day and things went very well. I was really attracted to her from the start. She was wearing that skin tight spandex so you could see everything, but she had a jacket over it. This girl actually stood me up (sorta), and ignored me for 2 days... (see attachment). It was too easy. I met her at her dorms, picked her up, took her on a walk around the mall, bought her iced cream, and then went back to her place and fucked. We didn't even talk about it. I just let her know with my actions. I did kiss her when we were out, and I did ask permission first. It seems to work out well; I usually ask "I want to kiss you ... but... (excuse not to)." I guess it sends sort of a mixed message, which is good. She accepted. Doesn't come off too strong, or too weak. We played a little silly point game, talked a lil about each other, laughed, smiled, etc. Just general good chemistry stuff. Unfortunately, the sex wasn't that great, and that really ruined it for me. She just kinda sat there. She said it was weird bc it was our first time. So it was kinda disappointing - but I am the man and took control and still somewhat enjoyed it. When we were doing it, I teased her "why'd you make me wait so long for this!?" and she supposedly didn't realize she did... lol oh well...
I went on a first date yesterday at this fancy place near the big university here - I ended up just walking out of the place as I wasn't attracted to the girl I was there to meet. She also brought a body-guard-girl-friend, that wasn't interesting at all either... Total time lost: 11 minutes.
At this time in my life, I really am not too focused on women. I find it much healthier to focus on personal businesses/achievements, my job, education, friends, eating well and staying fit. I just want several women in the background I can play with every now and then. I can find one to go out with at any time and almost immediately have sex. Even if a girl is attractive but they are boring, bad at sex, or have a terrible personality, I ditch them.