Saturday 12th July
My mate Jacamo rang me and said he wanted to go out. He rarely rings me. And we rarely go out together now. Partly because he has a girlfriend and partly as I like to spend most of my time with people who are disciples of game
. Jacamo is a friend I met at uni and one of my best mates. We were even business partners a couple of years back in a prior venture that never got of the ground. Jacamo was up for going up west to some proper upmarket venues and going hard!
I was in. I knew their wouldn't be much game with Jacamo, as he doesn't approach girls. He does his work off warm approaches,
friends of friends, work colleagues. He mainly always has a girlfriend and they have been 9/10's. He does cheat on them though. Think of that what you will. You wouldn't even think he had a g/f. It's weird. He says his latest g/f is the girl he is going to marry.
Jacamo came my place aka the garden of eden
. He was dressed to the nine's. He says he is in the best shape of his life
, fairly muscular, around my height and must be good looking. I say this due to the women he gets. But I also think his attitude helps. Very much the alpha male.
He came with a bottle of champers. We popped that shizzle and blitzed it in like 20 mins. I had bought a fuck load of booze so we started on that next. Also jacamo went to pick up some 'goodies'
. We smashed that as well. Jacamo said he has a feeling he's going to fuck tonight. I asked him why, does he have that intention. He replied "Hell yeah"! Apparently his g/f and her mates were watching a sex show with a group of guys who kept on giving them goodies the day before. For some reason jacamo thought this allowed him to have sexual intercourse with another women. I didn't agree with his logic. But I don't argue with people who want to cheat on their g/f's. I don't argue with people in general. Life is too short. People should do what makes them happy.
Jacamo's sister was with some friends (all girls) in South London. We ducked to go meet her. I didn't feel to well at this point. I didn't say much to the girls. Just sat there drinking water. Jacamo put some serious money on the game so his mind was elsewhere also. Jacamo is a big time gambler. Luckily his bet came of, in extra time! Intense shit.
I started to feel a bit better so we decided to duck.
We had plans of going up west, but I thought we would have been more successful in getting girls back if we stayed in South London. I had a free house. So we were pushing the after party like crazy
. As soon as we get there we go to head to a nice-ish
club. A group of 6/7 girls walk out. They basically say its shit in there and ask if we know of another place. I go to this area a fair bit but I'm on really familiar with the rowdy types of places it has to offer. I suggest a vodka bar, we all slowly tentatively
walk together. In the group there was probably 3 HB8's, 1 HB9 and yes a HB10
. She was fucking flawless
. Jacamo and I both were in agreement. She was phenomenal. Blonde bobbed hair, tight ass body and stunning face.
We get into the vodka bar. I go to the bar to get myself and Jacamo a drink. He says I should buy the birthday girl a shot. I do, fair enough. It's her birthday. The shot was originally for Jacamo but he told me to give it to her, so technically I was just giving Jacamo his own drink that I owed him that he distributed to the girl. However Jacamo said now I should get shots for everyone.
. Jacamo had said we were business partners to the girls and obviously mentioned our day jobs. Technically we still are, so this is accurate to a degree. If I didn't get the shots I thought it would of seemed cheap. I was in two minds, do I look cheap and stick to my morals of not buying girls drinks
or do I break them
. In this instance, I broke them. I bought an epic round of shots for everyone. Honestly only one girl properly thanked me. However this did help to cement our togetherness with the group, but I would say only slightly. Very marginally in this instance. Definitely wasn't worth it and can't see myself doing that again anytime soon.
I was talking to the HB10. Honestly that was all it was. I didn't think anything would happen. I was pretty much entertaining the whole group.
Jacamo doesn't do well in big groups of girls that he doesn't know. I started to speak to the HB10 more but I didn't get any real I0I's
from her. No anime eyes, no hair touching, playful touching etc. We all head to the dance floor. We boogy. I talk to the HB10 some more. But still no major IOI's.
But I must of received enough as I now try isolate. I ask if she smokes. She does. We go to the smoking area. I hold her hand as we walk through the club. I squeeze her hand. She squeezes back. Classic mystery shit.
Now I have been watching a lot of RSD Julien and he says that a girl just standing there being attentive is an IOI in itself as she could be doing anything else.
When in the smoking area I say she doesn't have good eye contact. She didn't. She was rarely looking at me. It was as if she was shy, but I am not sure. Eventually we are about half way through the cigarettes. I am conscience someone she knows may come out. I usually wait to the end for the Vitaly questions. But I went in quickly. She answered, yes, no and smiled. I went in. We madeout. God damn...Game!
We talk some more and makeout. Her friends now come out. But the SPAM has changed. One of them is crying. My 'girl-drama'
sense is tingling. The bitches hung around outside crying, arguing
. I head inside.
We game a little bit more. At one point I stand on my own. Jacamo had gone to the toilet. A girl came up to me and said she loved the look. This was a running theme throughout the night. I had dressed smart today. Fuck the all black.
I had a tweed patterned tan couloured blazer with a burgundy handkerchief. I honestly think our attire allowed us to peacock in all the right reasons. Girls seem to flock to a pocket handkerchief its crazy.
Anyways when the girls are back the vibe has changed. They didn't like Jacamo and by default I was being tarnished with that brush. The HB10 was fine with me. She was up for the 'after party'. But didn't want to come on her own. I was virtually running a 6/7 set by myself most the night and the drama was still lingering in the air. Eventually I just number close and we bounce to another venue.
When I got in there sooooo many people kept coming up to me on the way I was dressed. Not even joking. Bearing in mind Jacamo was dressed somewhat similar, he didn't get the same amount as love. Not even near.
I was in state. In state as fuck!
Jacamo was talking to a lot of guys. I think its because he is afraid to approach girls. I was talking to guys as quite a few came up to me. I was so in state I was talking to anyone. I had entered God mode.
There was one point there were 2 girls and 2 boys paired up. I literally sat in the middle of them and talked like a motherfucker. The chodes knew they were in the presence of a God.
I left them as Jacamo was on his own. It felt at times I had to babysit him or leave a group because he couldn't 'integrate' like me. It shows you how talking to a girl(s) in a cold approach is such a different skill. Jacamo isn't shy or some gay shit like that. He's normal. Talks more than me, but just to guys/girls he knows.
It starts to get late. There aren't many girls there. I open a 2 set. One HB9, maybe a HB10 another HB7. We reach the hook where it is us and them. We danced for a while. I usually rarely dance. I'm still sticking by this. I fail to see how you can game on the dancefloor. Btw I had met them in the smoking area and we had spoken there. When it came to the pull the HB7 was down but the HB9 had a b/f and wasn't. In the end we leave. Jacamo tried to facebook close a guy who declined. No game
We head back home, its like 5:30am. In the taxi back to the garden of eden Jacamo was in awe. He kept saying "Your game is insane!" He said my 'integration skills was off the charts. He's not into game, so i am assuming he was talking about my opening and ability to reach the hook point. He did however say I have to be closing. I have to be fucking more.
This is so true. He said in all the years he had never seen this type of ability in me. I liked this adulation, as it was testament to my game improving. Still a long way to go though. He was actually shocked at the level of girl I was gaming as well. Its funny how your eye changes in game. He also remarked 'What did you get at the end of it though, you were the entertainer but you need to be more clinical'. This is so true, and I am getting better, slowly but nowhere near where I should be.
- I think dressing smart is the way forward on weekend nights out. I am not joking, countless people kept coming up to me.
- I ascended to God mode today. It was good to go out with an old friend. Someone not in game. When I'm with friends back home we don't run game but the group has gravitas because of the way we own a venue and the way we look. I need to get this with the people I sarge with and/or meet new people. Right now we are like sharks going out just to approach girls. We need to transcend that. Enjoy each others company more and invite people into our world. Remember it is better to be the observed than the observer.
- It gave me a warm and fuzzy feeling on the inside to receive Jacamo's praise. He has fucked a slew of 9/10's.
- I also need to start going on some dates. I have categorically said under only extreme cases would I ever take a date on a Friday or Saturday night. These are prime sarging days. I'm would only do a Thursday if is no one is sarging. For me dates should be arranged from Monday-Wednesday. I will stick with this mentality but I need go on some dates. It's been a while. This is a useful skill I must continue to practice.