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| Author: | Zastro [ Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Going out is key, especially in a low opportunity area |
One thing I have figured out in the past two days is I am simply not going out enough. Also I have been too reserved and quiet. Several things lined up this weekend (one being a wingman who actually likes to go out) and we ended up going out both Friday and Sat night. While it is not unusual for me to go out on one of those nights, he likes to stay out for a long while where I'm more likely to head home sooner. Last night was just wonderful though... I was recently friend zoned by this Mexican waitress (she pulled the have a boyfriend routine). Last night I ran into them at a club. They were both sitting at the end of the bar area and that is all they were doing the whole time. She immediately made contact and hugged me and introduced the BF. I shook his hand and told him he is a very lucky guy. He seems like a nice guy. My interest in her dropped in the past few days (after seeing her at lunch Friday and she didn't look as good and then seeing her low energy at the bar) I introduced a couple of friends to them when something great happened.... As I was turning around to tell another friend who she was, just two feet away is this super cute waitress from another place I frequent. She always takes my table and we have been friendly for a couple of years. She has a very young kid (big negative to me) and had a BF (the father) but I think they split up a while back. She is 24, great body etc. She looked great tonight and was with a BF. Mexican girl is three feet to my right and observing. I tap 24 on the shoulder and find out she is quite drunk. She immediately makes a big drama scene of excitement and repeatedly hugs me while screaming in excitement. Then there was the whole OMG, OMG thing while hitting me and saying she can't believe she is seeing me or something. I can't remember if she introduced me to the BF but after about five minutes of incredible keno during hugs action he gets puffy and carts her away. On the advice of one of my friends, the Mexican girl didn't exist any more that night and I put her on full ignore status. Should be interesting next time I eat at those places! Also there is this HB that one of my friends knows. He closed her a long time ago and they are friendly when we run into her but she is looking for LTR. Since he doesn't live here she keeps him shut out. I met her a while back and she was out tonight. I offered her a drink while I was getting drinks for my group. She was very appreciative and friendly when I handed it to her. I made sure to get a hug etc and she went back to her singles group. I immediately regretted not getting a NC and decided I was going to get it before she left. After 30 mins she was only spotted twice so me and a friend went looking. She was sitting on the lap of this guy from her group. It was clear he was taking advantage of my drink! I was in kill mode last night and told my friend I'm going to go get her number. I sat in her chair and NC'd her right in his lap. He wasn't sure how to handle it so he just sat quietly. Also my friend swooped in and winged me nicely. She stated she was only looking for LTR. I said not to worry I'm just getting her number not taking her home. I had to roll my eyes considering she was in this guy's lap for what was sure to be a short term deal. I told him not to do anything I would and went back to my group. I had just AMOG's the hell out of this guy and needless to say I was the AMOG on this night. And then there was Bob. Bob is a tried and true AMOG specialist. He is actually married but his wife is into women so he gets to be on full time pickup mode. He brought her along because they F closed one he met two week ago. They live about 60 miles away. Anyway the wife is a ball of fire and managed to break through the ice of the manager of the club. I have been going there for two years and never has she stopped long enough to even say hi to. She is very cute though shorter than I like. Within a few minutes wife has this manager bringing her drink in a real glass. Everyone gets plastic! I gave her the wtf look and mentioned the glass. She said oh I can get you a glass too, so I ordered up a couple of drinks for my friends as well. When she brought them out and I introduced my friends and made some talk. Wife told me later that she had asked her my name when they were first talking. Interesting. She was giving out IOI's the rest of the time we were there. Also made eye and verbal contact to a few others with great response, but at that point I was a little too intoxicated to make a good close. Overall though, even those encounters have reinforced the rule of OPEN. You have to OPEN to close. I had zero negative reactions to any of the attention I gave. This weekend I had at least three other NC opportunities that I just didn't take advantage of. But after a year and a half of being divorced I feel like I'm getting a little bit of traction finally. |
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