Hi fellow PUA's
few months ago I was at party, and i immediately noticed a HB8. She was very beautiful and also a bit shy. All the other girls were trying to get my attention, but I was focused on her.
HB8
I opened her and she was fun to talk with. But I noticed something odd for some reason. She gave me her number and email that today. My mates were at the party too and they approached her also. And she also gave her number and email to all five of them... That is odd.
Later i SPAM her to meet up for a coffee, and she kept on finding excuses: too busy on her work, she fell off her bike and injured her knee(?!), blablabla. Actually I was fed up with this shit and was also gaming other girls. I actually forgot about her. I talked to my mates and they all stranded..
The first date
After two months (?!) since we met for the first time we finally agreed to meet ('I suggested a time and place and she agreed'). We met at a nice lounge bar and she was gorgeous, a true HB8
I was negging her, DHV, and all the PUA tricks (it has begun to be part of me anymore, can't stop doing this), but she didn't bait. I felt that i didn't create attraction or any bonding, so time to go home.The second date
Although the first date was not quite a success, still I couldn't just let a nice HB8 go like this. I proposed to meet up again, in my hometown. And I was suprised she agreed on meeting me (1,5 hour drive for her). During the day it was boring, we annoyed each other. There were several moments of awkward silence. But during dinner, I was tired and fed up, I told her very honestly how i experienced the date sofar. Then she apologised and explained herself...
The girl
She told me that she never had a relationship before, because of her strict parents. Her parents disapproved the guys she had dates with and the friends she hung out with. Her social circle consists of her family and a few female friends. Her weekends looked like as follow: do household with mum, do groceries/cooking with mum, hang out with mum, watch tv with mum, shopping with mum, etc. Practically she never goes out and does not meet any men. Now she is 33 and wants to meet men, but doesn't know how to behave at dates
After she told me this, I understood her. And we had a great night
My approach
For these 'kind' of girls, the general PUA guidance do not work. I just have to be myself
and be more patient and give her time to adopt. Please share your thoughts & views. Will be highly appreciated