Things had definitely with #4 relationship-wise. She didnt want anything like that from me anymore.. But we were still in the same social circle. I was growing mad at her for being so cold to me lately, and she had become very off-putting. Eventually she had a party at her house because her parents were off on some trip oversees. The only thing I got was a fb invite and a group text from her telling me about it. When i asked if i could bring a friend along with me she replied "no." I would later find out from another one of my friends that she had said "she never even wanted me to go in the first place.. She only invited me because I was part of the group." Which is something I believe because of how turned off to me she had become
And Yet, the Night Was One of the Greatest Paybacks Ever....
(Keep in mind I had been reading about PUA for a little over a month now, and this was my first time going out with it)
As soon as I showed up to the party, I immediately went over to my small group of friends. (I said hi to her as well, but i remember her responding very cold and with no eye contact.) So I'm chatting it up with a friend and a group of dudes suddenly show up to the party with a huge stuffed teddy bear that they say they've won at the carnival. They place it right next to where me and my friend are standing and walk away. Two girls are right next to us talking about it, and i open them:
Me: That Bear needs a name, what should we name it?
Girls: blahblah blah... why what do you think we should name it?
Me: Hmm.. I think it looks like a "Jupiter", or maybe a "Saturn"
One of the girls: "OMG wow that's so deep of you..."
Me: Haha well I am a very deep person...
Weirdly easy right off the bat, but i wasnt putting any pressure on myself. Im talking to these girls probably for 5-10 minutes, and I can tell the HB7 is interested in me, and looking back the HB8.5 was giving me IOIs and solid/flirtatious eye contact as well. But I eventually took off and joined the party games at the flip cup table.
I eventually befriended the entire table that was filled all with people I've never met before (They were mostly guys and maybe 3 girls including the HB7 who was into me). I was dominating in flip-cup-wise and was carrying myself well in keeping up with everyone in terms of conversation and input.
Eventually this one guy enters the party with a group of 3 or 4 guy friends behind him. He was taller than me by about 3 or 4 inches, with a bigger, stockier and more muscular build. The dude took up space, and was such a stereotypical AMOG. His AMOG like appearance and attitude was something to stop and look at. He joins the table and you can literally feel him start to control it. But i keep up well and eventually we become friendly. Not enough to be buddies afterwards, but enough for girl #4 (who had been ignoring me the entire night, except for the time when she came up to me telling me to stop changing the music on the stereo), to come up to me and say:
Her: Do you know who that is...?
Me: No, who..?
Her: That is my exboyfriend.. (She looks straight into my eyes gauging my response)
Me: (I reply calmly) oh haha... cool (While remaining unphased)
She then walks away without saying anything as I return to playing
I proceed to party into the night until i met this other Gorgeous girl, an HB9.9, she was adorable in a cute way with a nice body and long silky brunette hair. She was tall, maybe 5-8, but she didnt have that super-twig, stereotypical-model look to her. She had the body type you would expect to see on a healthy girl, with nice curves but a little more tone to it, and a nice filled face. Her looks DEFINITELY competed with #4, and she was probably the second hottest girl there. We bonded over playing with the dog inside by ourselves for about 15 minutes, joking about who the dog liked more. Eventually the guy she came with came in and interrupted us. However me and the girl were visible through the sliding door that led to the back the entire time, we couldnt have done anything even if we wanted to. The dude looked dorky. She later assured me that they werent dating, although I assumed he was probably either a desperate Ex or a desperate friend. I would go on to get her phone number when she was leaving. She lived upstate a couple hours away and was only down for the weekend, so i texted her the next day, "Hey its IcingFate, it was nice to meet you last night! =]", unfortunately i did not get a response. Had i known all the things from the Game that I know now i would have built more of a connection with her at the party and then when i texted her made it something witty.. Maybe planted an inside joke during the party that i would be able to turn to.
Lets Rap it up! (It gets interesting!)
So the party is winding down, but theres still probably 20 people or so. I break off with the HB7 from earlier on in the party. Shes obviously drunk by now, and says:
Her: "I cant do anything with you... I want to but I cant..."
Me: You cant? Why is that?
Her: Im not supposed to tell you..., #4 will get mad at me...
Me: Tell me what?
Her: #4 Told us we cant talk to you because youre bad... You'll hook up with anyone
Me: She told you what???
Her: Yeah she told all of the girls here at the party
So the host of the party, who over a month previously told me she didnt want to be with me, told all the girls at the party not to do anything with me. When she saw me at the party, she actually started telling all of the girls behind my back "Hey, do not get with that guy, he will **** anything" A mutual friend in our group confirmed this and even saw it happening. (The mutual friend was her best friend, we were the merging of two groups and were on opposite sides, but she came clean about it with me) The entire time I had no idea....
So Me and HB7 eventually walk out the front yard, and continue:
Her (By now shes struggling not to do anything): I cant im really not supposed to... I cant.... But wait..
We begin to make out for about a minute.
Suddenly some guy from the backyard comes to the front and asks us:
"Hey do you guys know where IcingFate is? #4 Is looking for him..."
I joking reply, "Nah.. I have no idea who that is" and me and the girl share a laugh
Him: (Believing me) Oh, someone told me he went out to the front but i dont know what he looks like, but she's looking for him.
Me: Im just kidding, its me, ill go talk to her...
I go to #4, who is sitting down and cant even make eye contact with me, and ask her "Do you want me to leave..?" She wont even look up or reply, and she only shakes her head yes
I reply "So ill leave, its your house Im not going to start any trouble here.. have a good night." I say goodbye to her brother, whom I had been bonding with also during the night, and leave.
...And as im leaving HB7 is still waiting for me in the front and we make out again before I leave =]
First Newbie Results:
2 Numbers (Both wound up being flakes)
1 Hook-up
1 Awesome time and story!
. The conversation has ended over text about three times now and each time I would bring it back up and we would again have deep conversations. This is a girl i would like to possibly date because of how genuine she appears to be. A book that has helped me to be more aware and make better inferences on people, along with her body language, tell me that she is a genuine, caring family oriented person. Shes in school to be a elementary teacher and was a teachers aid at an elementary this past semester (caring for kids which infers a family orientation) Her body language at the party seemed almost like she was out of place, nervous, and a little scared in that area, like she wasnt a hard partyer.. Just an honest girl looking to have a fun time with friends.