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| Author: | gingerguy [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 6:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A very bad night |
Last night was "thirsty Thursday." I'm a college freshman, but it's rush at my institution, so I went. The girls weren't beautiful; they were good enough. I approach the first one, and it goes okay. This is more a warm-up than anything else. I play with her a bit (her name was Mariah and she was Jewish... which isn't what I expected at all). That was probably my best approach of the night. Second approach was on a different girl, probably the most attractive one I approached last night. I start teasing and playing with her, and that was all right. It was a sloppily done approach and impossible to hear her, so I didn't spend too much time with her. She seemed somewhat interested in my teasing, but since I had an 8 am class, I wasn't taking anyone back. Third approach was on a girl whom I barely remember. After about a minute, her friend pulls her away (i.e. I know I f-ed up). By this time, understandably, I'm getting kind of pissed at myself. My approaches are normally above average-good. Obviously, they were terrible last night. Fourth approach seemed okay until I push-pulled her; she said the worst line "I have a boyfriend" and walked away. At the end of this one, I was really pissed at myself. I walked back to my dorm, even though it was only 11:45. On the way back, I thought about what had gone wrong, and I realized there were two major things. They clearly developed from many minor things, but I didn't think about all the minor issues. Those two issues were: 1. I've used the same routine so many times that it's getting boring to me. I need to change the routine up a bit. 2. I may have come off slightly needy, as I asked too many "data seeking" questions, which led to the girl losing interest. SO WHAT AM I GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? First, I'm going to modify my routine slightly and start assuming attraction more than I have been. This should lead to not trying as hard and therefore getting attraction far more easily. Second, I'm going to make more "cold reads" with the girls I approach, which should help get around "data seeking" questions. Even if I'm wrong, I can tease based on it. All in all, I see last night as more of a reference experience than anything else. It's something I can take, analyze, then build off of. I feel as though the biggest issue was that I took the first negative response and didn't let go of it; it threw me off last night. Since I can't go out tonight (it's Yom Kippur), I'm going to read my material and work on subtly changing my routine. I want to go from teasing only to a combination of teasing and push-pull. I need to look at body language again, but that's not one of my main concerns. Comments/questions are appreciated. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A very bad night |
May I suggest something a bit advanced... Escalate fast! Best routine in any man's arsenal. Fast escalation says so much about you: • alpha • confident • ahe assumes you have done this before on other girls since you're so confident with it • If skips so much of the small talk bull shit and gets about 10 steps closer to the end goal. Makes sense to do it when you are in college and its bit more of a DTF environment. "But PEBBLE i would like to get to know them 1st" Goodluck with that. 
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| Author: | gingerguy [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A very bad night |
Quote: May I suggest something a bit advanced...
Yeah, I've strongly considered the "escalate quickly." I regretted not doing it about 2 weeks ago, so I think it's a good idea to look into escalation again. Thanks for the advice.
Escalate fast! Best routine in any man's arsenal. Fast escalation says so much about you: • alpha • confident • ahe assumes you have done this before on other girls since you're so confident with it • If skips so much of the small talk bull shit and gets about 10 steps closer to the end goal. Makes sense to do it when you are in college and its bit more of a DTF environment. "But PEBBLE i would like to get to know them 1st" Goodluck with that. |
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