I met this girl in a nightclub about a month ago. Nothing really special about it, just chatting at the bar. I got her number and we started texting each other. Now the general pattern was that she'd respond to my texts almost immediately where as I'd always respond within an hour or two, I have a full time job after all. She would never leave me hanging though and if she did she'd even seem apologetic about it.
We met up for a date last Saturday and from my perspective it went quite well. There were a couple of things that might have been a deal breaker though; such as that she's a Muslim who doesn't drink and I made it clear to her that I'm an atheist who does. Anyway, I paid for her meal and got a few kisses (with tongues) out of it.
End of the night came and she was staying at her friends, I walked her there, kissed her on the lips, she said she'd text me and I left. Got to Monday night and no text, so I did the AFC thing and text her to try to gauge what she thought. She responded almost immediately and we exchanged a few more texts which I sent the last one (it wasn't a question or anything, just some bullshit about how delicious a meal she'd eaten sounded).
It's now been over two days and I've not heard a peep out of her. I haven't texted her since and I'm wondering whether to bother or should I just write it off as a lost cause; I have too much self respect to chase lost causes. Is the fact that her texting pattern has completely changed indicative of this?
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