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| Author: | tony82x [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 4:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Just knowing when to approach. Fail on my part. |
Hey guys! So I'm writing this to be informative and also vent because this involved a HB9 who my friend managed to hook. So me and a couple of the guys go out to this bar/club and are just hanging out having a few drinks. I notice a 4 set across the room and I am patiently waiting for an opening to approach. I wasn't waiting because I was nervous...after all, I have balls of steel. No, I was waiting because all 4 of them were very involved in their conversations and they were taking pictures and laughing and carrying on. There is two problems with this set...it's an even number of girls and they are so into their little group they aren't paying attention to anything else. None of them were bored. Usually you want to approach groups that have an odd number in them so that way everyone will have someone to talk to. For instance 3 girls is prime because you can isolate one girl while the other two carry on with each other. Also you want to approach girls that seem to look bored or more interested in the surroundings than their friends. Those are the girls that welcome approaches. Also if they are having a lot of fun and only paying attention to each other it's usually not good to approach them just yet. They most likely will ignore you or brush you off really fast to get back to what they were doing. So back to my story. I see this 4 set and wait to approach because they are having a lot of fun amongst each other. They all get up drink their drinks and look like they are about to leave. This is where it gets messy. They sit back down yet none of them have drinks so I think they are getting ready to leave. I end up rushing the approach and just randomly came up with something on the fly. I approach them and don't give them my full attention (my body is facing away) and I say "so I have a really random question...What do you girls think about midgets?" they look kind of puzzled and say "they're ok" to which I respond with "Ok, here is the real question, Would any of you fuck a midget?" to which they laugh and all say "no." I then ask if they just have a thing against shorter guys and they said they wouldn't hook up with a shorter guy. (I'm not short I'm 6ft...I just saw a midget in the club which sparked the opener.) Now at this point I ejected. I ejected because I could see they were not into the conversation and not being really talkative. Two of them started to ignore me. Which was easy because there was a big ass table barrier between us. It just crashed and burned really quickly. I didn't want to put more effort in because The one I wanted was the farthest away from me and I couldn't get to her. So moving forward... one of my buddies shows up and we start talking. A couple hours later I notice the girls that I thought were leaving were still around. They were on the dance floor and 2 were dancing while the other 2 were walking around. I tell my buddy to approach the girls. He was nervous so I had to do some coaxing but got him to approach. Now this HB9 was looking bored because she wasn't dancing with her friends. He walks up to her and the other friend who is a 5. Introduces himself and to my surprise the HB9 actually isolates him! He ends up getting her number after maybe 5 minutes of talking and he ejects. They agreed to meet up at a club that we had already planned on going to the next night. So the following night me and my buddy find them and it's the HB9 with a new friend who wasn't very attractive. So he introduces me and she's like "omg I remember you, you're the midget guy!" I said "yeah that's me. you guys weren't very talkative last night." she says "Yeah, I'm sorry my friends can get into weird moods and not want to talk but I thought you were funny!" Anyways I walk away because at this point it's my buddies project now. They are actually going on a date this tuesday. I just wanted to show how timing CAN be important on an approach and also the environment. I tried to approach a group of 4 when they were all locked into each other and sitting at a table putting a barrier between me and the group. Which can be good but the one I wanted was against the wall she was the farthest from me. Had I waited and approached when my buddy did I would have had success. I get looks can come into play but me and my friend everyone thinks are brothers because how much we look alike. My buddy just happened to approach when the girl was bored and pretty much standing around by herself. |
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