So I've been fucking crap with women in most cases. Almost all of the times I've been to a club, I stick to my clique in a terror that I gradually dull with the help of my ethanol bud. However, myself and a friend decided that life was way too damned short to live it in terror. So, we hit it hard this weekend, and I have to say it was glorious. I experienced an 'in flow' state like never before. Dancing like a madman, not taking myself seriously at all. I approached at least a dozen groups, got people dancing who her sitting down, got multiple "I have a boyfriend" lines, mingled and finally poked fun at AMOGs in the smoking areas. If you want to hear more, I can oblige.
Anyway, at about 11.30 (that early!) a HB8 in a scarlet dress was dancing with some friends, and I basically tell her 'I want to fuck you' with my eyes and beckon over, laughing. She's giggling like a nitrous oxide victim, and comes RIGHT up close to me, basically groin against groin. After dancing for a while, I start to escalate physically. Holding the small of her back and her waist shifted to her squeezing her ass and finally kissing her. I don't want to be vulgar, but I was rock hard and I sure as hell made sure she knew it.
This lasted for a good half hour, and I even pulled a sneaky move that Gambler mentions in his 'Formula for Night Game'. Basically, he subtly pulls the girls dress up, grabs her panties a little and slides them down. She's giggling like a dafty still. I get a drink and after introducing myself to one of her friends, this girl says to me 'I got your back, I'm your wingman!'. Glorious. Anyhow, after fooling around like this for a while longer, her and her friends bounce, and I get her number. This girl isn't at all 'skanky', she's has the cutest freckles like myself, and girls in red dresses to me are what a bright light is to a moth. I can't get enough of that.
Anyway, I'm suffering here wondering what to do a la text game. I have a suspicion that because I didn't f-close her on the night (it could have worked!), my chances might be reduced. Because a simple "hey, how are you?" or "wassup, feeling okay? not completely dead?" or whatever lukewarm texts are such a drop in tension/tone from the chemistry we had going on in the club, I was going to go for something sexually suggestive, or forward like:-
"we're having an Autumn wedding by the way, and it's going to be glorious. Bring the red dress (bit lame)"
or "you and I are going to create something beautiful and explosive. Are you familiar with the x fireworks festival/have you been to the beach at x? It's great for sandcastles. (meh, cheesy, cut out the joke at the end?)"
or "the mental images from last night are kicking my ass, but you and I have more to create. I'm going out this weekend/going to x cafe/park, meet me there"
As you can see guys, I've never done this sort of game before. I want to keep up a highly suggestive/sexual vibe. Any advice is appreciated.
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