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Author:  lucifer7 [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

SHE
She’s a stylish good looking party girl who enjoys her freedom.
The kind with fake nail, fake eyelashes, salon tanning etc, not really my kind but anyway...

MY PLACE
We had spent no more than 1h together when the drinks where out and we went back to my place.

I knew she had to go for smt planned with her SPAM but I said “just for a beer” and she agreed.
She said she only had 20 minutes at the bar, which means no more than 15 mins once at my place.

I opened two beers, put some music and kept talking.
She asked for my phone number, and sat at my PC to add herself on FB.

Guess at least some interest was there.

"THE MOVE"
Didn’t want to let her go without at least getting a bit closer physically but didn't go too well when I went for a kiss. She said “I’m not that kind of girl” (‘course she was :D ), and I went for a kiss on the cheek.

The moment was a bit awkward, but not too awkward.

We sat again on the couch, kept talking for some more minutes and when her SPAM texted her that she was waiting we got up and left.

GOODBYE
At the crossroad as we said goodbye I noticed she was standing there, so I went again for a kiss and this time was OK.

Just lips to lips, twice, I didn’t try to grope or make a big make out out of it.
Maybe I was trying to have a "cool, unneedy" image or I was simply OK with what had happened already, not sure.

She said again she would call and I said “yes, do that” and that it had been nice spending time with her.

This is all.



2 days ago I sent a single quick text to meet for a wine but nothing from her side.

Do you think I should have/could have done something differently or any good course of action from now?

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

You did good bro.

I guess you could of fried harder but if she has flaked then she has flaked.

Escalation reveals the truth out of a girl rather than talk and date her for months.

Author:  ddhh [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

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2 days ago I sent a single quick text to meet for a wine but nothing from her side.

Do you think I should have/could have done something differently or any good course of action from now?
I wouldn't have suggested a meetup in the first text. I would have flirted/teased a bit first, maybe a quick conversation, either by text or phone depending on the girl. Maybe at the end of that, if it goes well, suggest meeting up again. If I get positive feed back from that then I'll say ok I'll call you in a couple days to arrange something. Build some interest up then make her wait. Then when you do meet up do something different and make sure she has a really good time.

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