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When You're Scared, That's When You Need to Move :)
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Author:  RitualSlave [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 6:02 am ]
Post subject:  When You're Scared, That's When You Need to Move :)
Today, I went to the supermarket (Meijers) to buy a gallon of chocolate milk. After walking in, I was thinking about how I could repair the stools and equipment a Hooters when I saw these two clearly sexually available women (I would later be correct) walking down the opposite side of the produce section as I.

And it's times like these that I remember my first days in "pick-up," that "aghhh" feeling in my gut that turns on the intellectual pussy machine inside of my brain. Thankfully, I've been training myself--with the support of the PUA community, the WordPress community, and Tari Manello (my source for accountability) to "do one thing every day that scares me," which caused me to ask myself, "Does this scare me?" to which I then responded, "Yes? Yup! Okay, let's go! :)" Which is awesome, because I don't even have to think or bargain with myself anymore on whether or not I'm gonna go--it's just "GO."

Anyway, I do pick up my gallon of chocolate milk first (yum!), but on my way back, I remember that I have a challenge with Cosimo where I need to tell three different groups of women that it's National Hug Day followed by "and it's National Kiss Day." After going up to them and just general interacting with them "What material's that shirt?" "Are you two best friends?" "Oh, you're the dominant type" ("hahah yeah! You're right :)") I believe that they "sense" my courage in going up and talking with them, because apparently courage is an attractive trait, and the sexual innuendo with the bisexuality between them just flowed naturally between me and them.

Anyway, I say, "Hey, it's 'National Hug Day," and she IMMEDIATELY pulls herself into me for a tight hug, where her friend then comes in--all leader and shit (ahhh, so sexy :) ) to fucking press herself against me. I then follow it up with "It's also National Kiss Day," where she holds out her hand instead of her face. I pull it onto my lips (not bending down, of course) for that physical connect.

After a bit, though, I start to feel inadequacy, I believe, for not having the funds in my account to look all cool and shit by buying the groceries I REALLY need (I.e. Kale, avacados, baby bok choy, etc.), I believe that they can immediately sense it, because I TOTALLY botch one of the things that I've gotten really good at: Asking for the number.

I could feel the cracking and tension in my throat as I said, "Hold this milk, I'm going to put your numbers in my phone..." and like a shot of a basketball, I could tell whether it would go in or not from the first millisecond (it didn't). They would give me excuses like, "Oh, I don't think my wife/boyfriend woud approve :)" Yup--I done chucked this sexual encounter over the edge haha (which is no big deal--it just showed that I was doing nothing but mentally masturbating about how great I was with women all these years).

Note: The next time, I just need to spill the beans when it comes to things like "Oh, I actually am not buying anything--I just like to look around" or "My paycheck comes in this Tuesday." The sexual seed would've grown to a beautiful sprout after that point--I'm POSITIVE it would have!

Anyway, with all that in mind, I asked a series of questions about this interaction, and here are the points that I've pulled for each:

  • 1. What best needed to happen the most for it to progress further to outstanding sex?
    • 1. State intentions
      2. Places to take them
      3. Clear visions on where to go
      4. Enthusiasm
      • 1. Calibration
        2. Certainty
      5. Foundation of financial security
      6. Centered (I was, but I could've been more so)
    2. What best is the criterion for judging what best I did right or wrong?
    • 1. Sex-creating
      2. Attraction
      3. LAS VEGAS (Credit: Style)
      4. "The Six Human Needs" (Credit: Tony Robbins)
      5. Comfort
      6. Trust
    3. What best did I do right to get outstanding sex?
    • 1. Centered
      2. Ironed, fitting shirt
      3. love intention
      4. Sexual visualization (I pictured her giving me a blowjob in her underwear... it works)
    4. What best did I not do right to get outstanding sex?
      • 1. Goals and places/destinations
        2. Highest status (I was really high status, but alpha girl had it DOWN--it was fucking hot)
    5. What best need was not met during that interaction?
    • 1. Certainty
      2. Growth! (What best is the way that I could have grown and escalated that relationship further?)
    • 1. Physical connections
      • 1. Hair pull
        2. Meticulous application of the Universal Mating Sequence (keep moving "up" when she's smiling!)
        3. Arm-around-waist + stroll through store
      2. Stories (Emotional Connection)
      3. $$ for buying things

    6. How best do I transform myself into the five relationships from five consecutive interactions venusian artist? (Focus on "Warrior women")
    • 1. Best go out daily
      2. Invest in style, know women, love clothes
    7. What best key fundamental did I leave out?
    • 1. Needed to keep progressing as long as she's smiling
      2. "Fuck Meijers" (I.e. don't worry about getting banned), also, go to new locations
      • 1. Grand Rapids
        2. Other cities (Jackson, Richland, South Haven, Ann Arbor...)

    8. What best was my ultimate vision for those two girls?
    • 1. Menage a trois
      2. Double blowjob
    9. How best do I naturally escalate the relationship?
    • 1. Arms around waist
      2. Walk around store
      3. Move forward--closer between her and I
      4. "Fractionate" (This works on me, it'll work on her!!)
      5. Act as if menage a trois-ing right now!
    10. What best details do I need to record for my bros?
    • 1. Smile
      2. Platinum ring
      3. Wives
      4. "Hold milk" -- Hot
    11. How best can I improve my game the most from that interaction?
    • 1. Focus on completing the challenge
      • 1. Lead
        2. Move
        3. Act as if
      2. Actually go for the next girl who pulled up RIGHT NEXT TO ME--Make it a challenge to talk with another girl immediately after talking with another
    12. What best do I need to improve upon the most?
    • 1. Growth
Author:  RitualSlave [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 1:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When You're Scared, That's When You Need to Move :)
A woman is personally DTF when she's hanging out by you--talking about vaginas with you--as her BF stands by your dad in a game of cornhole.

Your straight-to-the-point communication refreshes me, too. Because it gets the data out there quickly. For example, our first question's answer is: I've had 7 f-closes TOTAL (one was FWB--17 times over).

Yet, there's a question that I would ask myself now: "How many f-closes have you had in the past 6 months?" The answer? Exactly zero. All I've had was a blowjob--and a bad one at that.

With our second point, now, I fucking AM doing awesome hahaha! :) Correlating to the above point, I've been focusing and developing my finances like a motherfucker, and I feel more solid than ever.

Thanks again, Overall Streetwalker.

General Note For Our Convo: Overall, I'm really grateful for this community, and I've been developing myself to a ridiculous degree--both with women and with finance (aren't they related??). I'm grateful, too, in part for helping me to snap out of the spell where I thought I was doing something when I wasn't.

Most of my "personal development" for the past three years was a LIE--a LIE except for the part that shows me that it was a lie.

The level of transformation that I've experienced in the past few months outweighs the growth I've experienced for the past few years by far--though it may just be the compound interest
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