Ok, this makes me so MAD because i was very close to success but for some reason i am not entirely sure of, i messed it up in the end.
First things first, i am relatively new to the PUA scene, with two months of studying and sarging. Last week during sarging i have met an 8 that also works as a waitress in a couple of bars and after DHVing her i facebook-closed. Three days later she agreed on a date and we went to some bar in the center of the town. I went for rapport-building topics (what is your favorite movie, what is your favorite place to be, oh me too), i established a strong frame and i did different tests/gambits/routines: i started with Murder-marry-shag, then with the Cube, the Greek gods rings routine, we played the Three lies game and the Five lies game were she bought me some shots
Through out the whole time i've received some major IOIs (touching her hair, touching me in the arm with me replying constantly this will cost you 10$, telling me about the next time we will go out etc).Then i bounced her to a second bar. After some rapport building, we played again Murder-marry-shag where i included myself to the three people and she replied that she would marry me. I've made the Kino trust test and she completely complied: she put her hands on top of mine with her palms down, she squeezed back when i squeezed and she lowered her hands as i lowered mine. Then i went for the kiss: We played Cajun's question game and as my last question i asked her how good kisser is she. She responded "well, i guess i am around 8" and i replied with "do you think we should find out?" and i leaned in for the kiss, but she leaned back and avoided it with something like "i will decide when".
I tried to freeze her out by saying that is time to leave, but i am not sure if i generally sounded too disappointed or not. Afterwards i drove her home and i went again for the kiss but she avoided me for the second time and she left without building a time bridge first… So, i have two questions. First of all, what do you thing i did wrong? Should i had more kino escalation before going for the kiss? Second and most importantly, what should be my next steps? This happened three nights ago and since then neither of us has contacted back (in fact i know that she will be out of town for the next few days). Should i call her during the next week to give her one last chance to go out with me and then try to escalate again? Or does this sounds needy and i should show her that i have more options by completely ignoring her and waiting for HER to call back?
Thank you!!