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| Author: | 13245 [ Sun May 12, 2013 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Learning the game is starting to pay off |
On Friday night I went out alone. The last time I did this was a disaster as I could hardly get the balls to approach and opened about one set all night. I decided this time would be different and holy shit it was. I went to the first bar of the night and after a bit of a rocky start with nerves, started opening sets. At first I was just talking to guys to get into state but it didn't take long before I was opening girls too. I got some pretty good responses and one girl actually hugged me as soon as I opened. She was pretty damn hot but at that point I was still a little nervous so I just introduced myself then said I'd see her in a bit or or something to that effect then walked off and opened some more sets. After opening a few more sets I left that bar and went to the club across the street. I opened a few sets but none of them really hooked. I was happy though because I just wanted to best my pathetic performance from last time which at this point I had already done by a factor of infinity. After a little while one of the girls I had opened in the other bar approached me and asked me to dance with her and her friends. It went OK for a while but eventually they walked off. I should have gone kino with her. Never mind, on to the next club. I wasn't in this club for too long before the girl who hugged me earlier approached me. She said something like "I was worried you weren't gonna come" and then asked me to dance. I didn't make the same mistake as earlier this time. I went kino pretty quick and kissed her in less than thirty seconds. She was way hotter than the girl in the other club too. She introduced me to her friends and they seemed pretty cool and didn't have a problem with me. This girl was super into me. She kept saying I was hot, that she loved my hair etc. How do I respond to stuff like that? No girl has ever been like that with me before. I pretty much just smiled and said thanks. When she said "You know you're hot right?" I was like "Oh yeah" then smiled. I didn't think I was particularly good looking but just tried to act confident. It seemed to work. I don't know if I really am good looking, or if my new confidence from learning game made me seem it to her or what. Regardless, I need to learn how to respond to stuff like that. At one point one of her friends was like "You should buy her a drink". I hadn't previously bought her a drink and hadn't been intending on doing so either but I didn't know the best way to respond so I was like "Would you like a drink?". She declined and looked a little embarrassed by her friend. For future reference, how should I respond if a girl's friend says that? For that matter, what if the girl herself asks for one after it's been made clear that she's really into me? We danced, grinded and made out for the rest of the night. I got her number but haven't texted her yet. Any suggestions on what to say? At one point she mentioned she liked anime and I told her I do too, to which she responded "I love you!". Maybe I could invite her over to watch some anime film? That was by far my best night since I started learning game. Actually, it was my best night out ever. Before I started learning game I would go out drink loads because I was too much of a pussy to approach. Most of the time I would end up getting too drunk and having to go home without having spoke to any girls. But I did the other night stone cold sober. Well apart from a few sips of the girls drink. I'm really improving. This is awesome. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sun May 12, 2013 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Learning the game is starting to pay off |
Quote: On Friday night I went out alone. The last time I did this was a disaster as I could hardly get the balls to approach and opened about one set all night. I decided this time would be different and holy shit it was. I went to the first bar of the night and after a bit of a rocky start with nerves, started opening sets. At first I was just talking to guys to get into state but it didn't take long before I was opening girls too.
Awesome job man!! You can use this as a follow up text....I got some pretty good responses and one girl actually hugged me as soon as I opened. She was pretty damn hot but at that point I was still a little nervous so I just introduced myself then said I'd see her in a bit or or something to that effect then walked off and opened some more sets. After opening a few more sets I left that bar and went to the club across the street. I opened a few sets but none of them really hooked. I was happy though because I just wanted to best my pathetic performance from last time which at this point I had already done by a factor of infinity. After a little while one of the girls I had opened in the other bar approached me and asked me to dance with her and her friends. It went OK for a while but eventually they walked off. I should have gone kino with her. Never mind, on to the next club. I wasn't in this club for too long before the girl who hugged me earlier approached me. She said something like "I was worried you weren't gonna come" and then asked me to dance. I didn't make the same mistake as earlier this time. I went kino pretty quick and kissed her in less than thirty seconds. She was way hotter than the girl in the other club too. She introduced me to her friends and they seemed pretty cool and didn't have a problem with me. This girl was super into me. She kept saying I was hot, that she loved my hair etc. How do I respond to stuff like that? No girl has ever been like that with me before. I pretty much just smiled and said thanks. When she said "You know you're hot right?" I was like "Oh yeah" then smiled. I didn't think I was particularly good looking but just tried to act confident. It seemed to work. I don't know if I really am good looking, or if my new confidence from learning game made me seem it to her or what. Regardless, I need to learn how to respond to stuff like that. At one point one of her friends was like "You should buy her a drink". I hadn't previously bought her a drink and hadn't been intending on doing so either but I didn't know the best way to respond so I was like "Would you like a drink?". She declined and looked a little embarrassed by her friend. For future reference, how should I respond if a girl's friend says that? For that matter, what if the girl herself asks for one after it's been made clear that she's really into me? We danced, grinded and made out for the rest of the night. I got her number but haven't texted her yet. Any suggestions on what to say? At one point she mentioned she liked anime and I told her I do too, to which she responded "I love you!". Maybe I could invite her over to watch some anime film? That was by far my best night since I started learning game. Actually, it was my best night out ever. Before I started learning game I would go out drink loads because I was too much of a pussy to approach. Most of the time I would end up getting too drunk and having to go home without having spoke to any girls. But I did the other night stone cold sober. Well apart from a few sips of the girls drink. I'm really improving. This is awesome. "I had a great time last night. And without getting too serious too fast, I learned to truly appreciate how rare it is to find someone who has a great sense of humor, genuinely a nice person, overall attractive, and generally pleasant to be around... But enough about me. You seem like you might be a pretty awesome person too." Keep up the good work! |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Sun May 12, 2013 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Learning the game is starting to pay off |
I heard this in a similar post, one response to you should buy her a drink, you say you should do my laundry, your so sexist, smile |
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| Author: | 13245 [ Tue May 14, 2013 11:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Learning the game is starting to pay off |
Thanks for the advice guys. I'm actually meeting her for coffee in a couple hours. I'll let you know how that goes. I'm a little concerned about who pays for what though. I didn't spend any money on her the night I met her and I know the general rule is don't pay for her stuff but how do I do this? I feel like unless I'm just like "I got this" there's gonna be a really awkward moment where no-one knows who's paying. What if I'm like "I got this. You can buy me a drink next time we're out". That way I side step the awkwardness but don't look like an AFC who just pays for everything. Would that work? |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Tue May 14, 2013 3:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Learning the game is starting to pay off |
If you feel like paying, just pay. Don't make a big deal out of it. Just look out if she says thank you, or tries to pay herself, if she doesn't be wary of her. Not saying shes bad then, but just keep an eye open. |
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