I also posted this same story in New Users, if there is a problem with the duality of my posts please let me know. But here is my story:
Heard about this forum through Neil Strauss' book, The Game. I've been reading up on strategies and sarging in general over the past couple months and I figured it was about time to learn some tricks to blow the minds of girls and make them want you instantly. I was searching for hours on cool tricks and how to do them until I discovered PUMA skills by Brad Jackson. I didn't practice anything and just winged it tonight as I went for wings with a buddy tonight (wing wednesday obviously) Now, I don't know if this is the right place to post my story but here goes anyway.
The waitress I've known for about a month or so because we always go to the same place for wing wednesday and lucky for me, we sat in her section. She came along with the menus and took drink orders and the initial eye contact and smiles told me she was thinking, "I remember him!"
After she brought our beers back I said very politely, "Thank you very much, Ashley." She was impressed I remembered her name, but she didn't remember mine. Either way, it doesn't matter because after tonight she will not forget my name again.
Every time she came to ask if we needed refills, or how we were doing, i got her to laugh with a little joke or two and she was off to tend to other customers. For example, i ate more wings than my friend and bragged about it when she took our dirty dishes away and I commented about being the bigger man and flexed for her ( I'm a gym junkie
) and shy looked at my arms, giggled, smiled, and was off. I asked her to bring me a coffee back with salt and sugar on the side.This is where I practised quickly on my friend the sugar stab trick, and he was amazed, (drunk but still clueless) And in doing so I made a huge mess with the sugar on the table. It was perfect! She came back and commented on the mess and my wingman told her how I put my finger through a sugar packet as i threw it in the air. She said show me, so i did. Flabbergasted! Haha it was awesome, I took it off my finger and handed it to her and she didn't know what to say. She asked me to do it again, and Brad Jacksons advice was right about never doing the same trick twice. That's when i told her I have magic hands and fingers
After we were done our beers and coffee, I asked her if she was still curious about how I did my trick. I asked her if she wanted to see another one and she said yes, so I showed her another one. However, this time before the trick I told her, "This trick only works if you don't have a boyfriend, do you have a boyfriend?" She turned red and stumbled around maybe, what if i do, and generally made me think she has one but never said she did. Then I said "Well if you do, and you are still amazed, you have to give me your number anyways. But only if I blow your mind." She said ok show me, and I showed her the trick, sure enough, mind blown! And I commented on my magic hands and fingers again and got her giggling.
I showed her one more because she asked, a really cheesy coin trick that got her good but the quarter fell on the ground about 30 seconds later because I messed up a little bit, which isn't bad for trying it for the first time and being three pints into the night. She laughed when she heard it, we all did, and it was no biggie. When I paid debit, she gave me her number, SUCCESS! Maybe, I hope so? It could be a fake number?! But then I thought, she works there, and I go there often, so it would be embarrassing to give me a fake right?
THIS IS WHERE I NEED A PRO SARGE OPINION PLEASE!!! Maybe not the best place to post asking for one, is there another place I can post my story to ask for the follow up advice? Anyway, this is my big stupid head mistake I made:
I MESSED UP ON THE DEBIT MACHINE AND DIDN'T TIP HER!!!! SO EMBARRASSINNGGGG....She was kinda pissed when she saw my receipt and saw I didn't tip and I didn't notcie it until after because on the outside I was "stone cold playa playa i get numbers all the time no biggie" but on t he inside I was jumping up and down like a 6 year old on christmas ever waiting for santa. This is where I need the help.
I thought when I call her in a couple days, planning to on friday, if it's a real number and she answers I will tell her who it is and talk a little bit and bring up how stupid i am i didn't tip her by accident, and go on about she is always so fun and gives good service and i'm sorry so i need to make it up to her by buying her lunch or a drink when shes done work some time. I think I've stumbled on an entirely new play here, new to me anyway. DON'T TIP ON PURPOSE, so you can follow up as I've explained. Is this a good or bad idea? Thoughts? From everyone, beginners, masters, everyone. Consider this en3rgie trademarked as, "The forgot to tip"
Now another thought came to mind, what if she doesn't pick up? Do I leave a message? Or text her after she doesn't pick up? Maybe I should wait a couple days for a returned call? And if I don't get that call, do I text her after i wait that allotted time waiting for her to return my call? What do you guys think is the best move?