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| Author: | Disco90 [ Sun Apr 07, 2013 11:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Positives and Negatives |
This is my debut field report, about a night out I had on Friday, I think it’ll help my game if I can weigh up what I did right and wrong, although I think I know the answer in my own mind. As stated in the title, I think there are positives and negatives to take here but I’d love to hear you guys’ opinion. Anyway, me and my friend decided to hit a club in the city centre on Friday, the place in question is normally pretty reasonable price wise, with the considerable added bonus of having a good standard of women that go there. Usually, I like to sharpen up and open up a few warm up sets at a bar before going straight to the club, but my mate wasn’t so keen dues to him being on a tight budget, so it was drinks at my flat then straight to the club. This meant that I’d have to warm up in the club itself. As stated, a technique that I find really useful in my game is to warm up by opening up some pressure free sets, where I specifically cut the conversation short before I go after some higher value targets later on in the night. Normally I like to do this in a bar, but circumstances were against me on this occasion. So first thing I did when I walked in was charge straight up to the bar and opened up a 2 set with my daygame opener. Worked well as it usually does, and I had a 5 min conversation with these two girls until it my turn to get served at the bar, after which I got a round in for me and my buddy and moved on to another part of the club. It was at this point I noticed that the quality of women wasn’t up to its usual standard, both in terms of number and quality. This time a month ago I would’ve used that as an excuse to not really try my game with any of the girls, but I guess I can take the fact that I did the opposite; that I took it as a challenge to succeed that night as a sign my game is getting better. Anyway, I opened up another few sets at other bars within the club, but to be honest, I was only really doing it for the sake of it; there was nobody really better than a HB6 around. We decided at this point we should maybe hit the floor and see if there was anything better there. We were walking along next to the VIP booths when I noticed out of the corner of my eye a HB8 looking at me, coincidently at the same time as my mate bumped into an old school friend of his. So without hesitation, I walked over and opened with a quip about her being a VIP (can’t remember exactly what it was, but it did get a laugh). From there I noticed she wasn’t local, and in fact turned out she was Swedish and had in fact been all over the world. I told her I was the same, and had spent a lot of my childhood in South America (which is true), and spoke to her a little in Spanish to DHV. She was lapping it up, so I asked her if she fancied joining me on the dance floor, which she did. The previous day I had watched some of Gambler’s videos on stealth seduction, specifically the video currently at the bottom of the forum. So I used his technique of facing her when talking in her ear, and returning to face her as slowly as possible to initiate kino and create sexual tension. I did this maybe 3 or 4 times before she pretty much pounced on me for the K close. By this time her friend in the VIP section (HB5, pretty face but overweight) was getting annoyed about sitting herself so decided to try and drag her friend back. The girl I was with felt kinda bad I think so decided to go with her, which I was cool with because I figured I should probably go and see what my friend was up to as well. Here’s the main negative though, pretty sure I did myself out of an f close. She insisted I take her number and call her when I was leaving the club, to which of course I was more than happy to agree. But when she put her number in I accidently deleted it, meaning I had to grab her to ask for it again. This time though, she showed me the number on her phone to copy down. There’s absolutely no reception in this club so I couldn’t hit call to see if it was the right number. Anyway, she went off and I found my friend, hung out for maybe 45 mins before I decided to call it a night. When walking home I tried to call her, but unfortunately got the ‘this number is not recognised’ message. Looks liked I copied it down wrong. I looked for some girls to game on the way home for a hail mary shot at getting a shag but didn’t bump in to any that were within 15 years of my age. So I got home and just went to sleep. Like I said at the start there are definitely positives and negatives to take here. The positives are that I’m opening up sets with total ease, and my game is good when I do so. Also, the first time I tried a technique (the stealth seduction one from Gambler) I did it perfectly, so I know I can make that technique work for me, and will certainly use it again. The negatives here are that I did myself out of a ride because of a stupid mistake (taking down the number wrong). Also I could’ve and should’ve stayed in the club a little longer and sorted myself out with a back up girl. But these are 2 things I’ll learn from, and I’m confident that my overall game will improve because of it. |
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