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| Author: | KamenRiderBeast [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 4:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Out on a date, is she shy or just not interested? |
So some time ago I was browsing through the online game forum and found a message that I sent to a few girls on Match.com. Don't remember the content but it was something like "hi, I'm bla bla bla, you seem fun to talk to, here's my number XXX-XXX-XXXX." One Chinese girl actually replied back to me and sent me an SMS on the phone and we set up a date. Originally we planned the date to be in one place, but later on she asked if we can change it to a coffee house that is closer to her and since it was the same walking distance for me I said sure. I showed up and we talked a bit, told her about my hike with friends for 7 hours that weekend, and some other interesting stories. Since the weather was nice (which is rare for vancouver) I suggested we go for a walk b/c sitting across from each other was offering me no kino options or anything. She resisted a bit at first, but I just stood up and said "let's go, c'mon" and we went out. Throughout the walk I did very little kino (stupid, I know), and at some point she started talking about the fact she is conflicted whether or not to move to LA or stay here and help her brother (who is younger). I talked to her about that for a bit, but then I tried to get off the topic since it was getting gloomy and not very entertaining. We walked along the shore line and just fluffed I guess about restaurants and places we've traveled. At some point I asked her for the time and told her I need to be heading back. We headed back and she said "let me show you where I live". So we went back through the street her building was in. I was gonna go and catch my bus back and then I said "hey, can I come up and use your washroom for a sec" event just to get the idea of me being in her place more natural. But she said she has to call her roomate b/c they made a "you can't bring guys home" rule when they moved in, it seemed honest so I just said "oh, then forget it, I don't need to deal with an angry roomate right now". I go to leave and then I point at my cheek as in to kiss me, and she says "no no, just hug" and hugs me. I stay there standing with my finger on my cheek but she keeps refusing. Before I leave she says "so I'll see you later?" and I say "we'll see" I'm thinking that I just didn't evoke enough attraction, and chinese girls can be somewhat apprehensive about PDAs in general. So I'm thinking of waiting for a week and then calling or texting her to set up a second date with more kino. Feedback? what do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 6:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Out on a date, is she shy or just not interested? |
Quote: Before I leave she says "so I'll see you later?" and I say "we'll see"
She wouldn't ask that if she wasn't interested. If anything, she probably feels like you're the one that's not interested with how you responded. You're also considering only contacting her in only a week from now... To me it seems like you've been keeping it really low-key and hiding your interest in her far too much.If it's been more than 24 hours since your date ended, I'd contact her now. |
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| Author: | Dr. Spargenator [ Thu Apr 04, 2013 4:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Out on a date, is she shy or just not interested? |
shes obviously interested in you and you need to show her interest or youll loose her. girls just take things slow. thats why she wouldnt kiss u on the cheek. thats normal, everything is fine. everything you said in this post tells me that shes interested but taking it slow. text her tomorrow, u can set up another hangout or just talk 
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