I wanted to share a my experience about 2 different guys. One hot, one not. Which one did I go out with?
Here we go!
Hot Navy Body Builder Guy
Day 1.
I was selling TV's at work one day when an extremely handsome man caught my attention. This guy was a 10. Probably an 11. Taller than my bedroom door. Built like an ox. Nice strong jaw line. Blue eyes
oh my.I approached him like I did every other customer on my sales floor. Only, I added a little more swing in my hips and subtracted one less button secured on my shirt. We started chatting. I was amused by his friendly banter. He was funny and wasn't afraid to throw negs. I could tell right away that he liked me. He left with a new TV and my number.
Day 2.
After much texting, he took me out on a date. We were going to check out this poetry slam at some jazz club. He picked me up at my house. The jazz club was 45 minutes away so we had lots of time to talk. I learned that he was a sailor and seemed surprisingly like a family man. There I was, listening to him talk about his nieces and nephews, wonder what I had done to deserve such a perfect man. Seriously... why is he so perfect? Is this guy up to something?... I texted my best friend and asked her to call me every 45 minutes to check if I'm alive.
On the way to this unknown club, we got lost. This is probably where he failed at build comfort. It's 11:50pm and we're parked near a dock. I told him that getting lost was fine, because the club didn't sound cool anyways. We got out and walked around a bit, checking out all the sweet boats docked. I thought it would be fun to pretend we were shopping for boats together.
Suddenly he just grabs my hand! No kino escalation at all. It was a bit shocking. I was a tad uncomfortable, even though I didn't understand why. It started to get cold so we head back to the car. He tells me I should come over to the barracks on base and that I need to meet his roommate. He made his roommate sound like the most white trash, hillbilly person alive. Apparently I needed to hear it. Hopeful that the date will pick up, I go along.
We get there and I spend a good 10 minutes trying to hold in my laughter as his roommate explains how to catch squirrels good enough to eat. After that the date made its way into the bedroom. I inquire about his aspirations and what led him to be a body builder. It's all quite impressive. We're sitting on his bed talking and leans in to kiss me. I kiss him back waiting to feel a tingle. Nothing! I try again but this time running my hands on his built chest. Maybe then I'll get aroused? Nope. Nothing. This guy seemed like everything I could ever ask for. Funny, sexy, family guy that's financially stable. But there was no zing
After that I asked to go home. I stayed up all night talking to my best friend, trying to figure out WHY CAN'T I LIKE THIS GUY?!!! He was my type and MORE. Just no attraction
No stirring in the underpants. Boyfriend for 2 years
My ex boyfriend was a 4. An associate even asked me "what the hell are you doing with that guy?" like it offended some people that I was going out with someone visually unappealing. He started stepping up as alpha. Leading the group. Having other women DHV to him. He built attraction, comfort and ultimately got laid. We actually broke up because he got drunk and cheated on me. It was an interesting relationship though.
Moral of the story
Looks aren't everything. I couldn't sexually excited even if that "Navy Guy" stood naked with a 10 inch hard on. Yet my ex got me turned on all the time and let's just say... he's not the kinda guy you see on a porno.
