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Author:  MrMatt [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Journal of a whimpy chump
...Kiding, I'm actually awesome... No, I'm serious, I truly am.

Since I'm starting a new journal, I guess I have to write a bit about me first.

[/b]The man himself[/b]

I am a 20 year old certified badass. Not socially retarded, well, erm... Just a little? 8)
Okay, let's get a bit more serious here. I'm a student, I have been in the community for a while, I mostly know how to pick up girls even though I'm no PUA. I've done a lot of crazy shit in my life and also in pick up, and I also don't feel like telling more about me.

But why?

I'm starting this journal because I am getting back in the game. I've had a lot of phases... being an asshole, being a pick up robot, etc... And lately I was just fed up of PU and all these mindgames so I tried to be simply honest and nice to every one. And I ended up getting dumped for being a case of a "nice guy". So, even if I still have some hard feelings for PU, It seems like it is the way to go.

My goals

Hmmm... Hard Q. My true goals?
- I want to finish school, have a nice job a ton of money.
- For the moment, I just want to have fun and get a ton of girls, but eventually, and most probably this summer, like every year, find a girl that I truly like, but for once, actually stay with her.
- I want to be as confident, as good looking, as stylist and have the best lifestyle I can possibly have.

And well, that's pretty much it.
Author:  MrMatt [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
First night out

For the moment, I'm a hot mess. I don't give a shit about most people I talk to or meet. I am what most people would classify as an asshole. But I also have some AA since I didn't really game in some months. So my goal was to spot AI, go and approach girls, and eventually seduce them.

However, on that specific night, I didn't feel like putting much effort on my interactions. Therefore, I just approached on the dancefloor with:

"Hey, do you have a boyfriend?"
-No
"Do you find me attractive"
-Yes

and then just go for the make out. Surprisingly I did not get rejected using this. I ended up getting a couple of numbers, no real 9s or 10s though so I didn't even text any of them. It was just for the sake of practice. Cause we all know... Practice makes perfect

Second night out

If my first night out was a success, this one was a total failure. I decided to go out with only one of my friends and I didn't drink (unlike normally) because I was getting ready for a competition. So both of us were sober, and let me tell you, I realized that WHITE BOY CAN'T DANCE, when sober haha. I was actually finding it real funny that I had absolutely no rhythm. However, being sober also allowed me to be more aware of my environment, and fuck it seemed that 99% of the people on the dance floor were not having a good time. Anyways, overall was a lame night, a couple of small interactions here and there, but nothing PU wise.

Third night out

So I ended up winning gold at my competition so I decided to go out with some friends. We were 3 boys and 3 girls, but I didn't feel like picking up any of the girls we were with (already had some "history" with one of them, but let's not get off track here). I wanted to try to pick up new girls instead.

We arrived at the club late so didn't have much time to game. We were chatting and drinking at a table, but there was a cute girl (tight leggings) dancing on a stage near our table so I really wasn't paying any attention the our conversation, and I was basically just looking at her (especially her ass). After a while of just stalking her, risking to be a creep, she looks back at me and I just hold EC, she smiles and look away so I know it's on. After "stalking" her for a bit more, she looks at me again, but that time I tell her to come at me with my fingers, she comply and come up to me asking me why I'm not dancing. Told her I will go dance later, and I will dance with her, so she has to keep dancing on the stage and I'll come pick her up when I want to dance. After a while, I go get her, dance with her a little, talk to her for a bit, some guy tried to AMOG me but they didn't do shit. Had to go so I took her number, tried to go for the kiss but her temperature level wasn't high enough, or maybe it was because of her friend because right next to us... But anyways, ended up with her number and I might text her since she was actually cute. Not sure what just yet, we'll see.
Author:  MrMatt [ Sat Apr 27, 2013 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
April's 2013 update

I've been real busy with school and medical reasons lately, so I didn't really go out for most part of May and April. However, I just finished school and last week, I started going out again. Even if I personally think LR's are actually just a wait for guys to brag about their latest conquest, I've been told otherwise and that it can help others... So here's my LR from last week, the very same night I was back in the game.

Lay report 1

So after deciding that even if I still have a medication condition, I would go out with my buddies, we head out to the bar we usually go to and drink a beer or two. I wanted my comeback to be good, so I called a girl I flirted with a while ago, and she was waiting for me at another near bar. My plan was originally to spend some time with my friends, then head off to pick up the girl and bring her home. However, I still wanted to dance a little before going to meet her, so my friends and I headed on a stage that was located on the dancefloor.


1st approach

Recently, I've been focusing on screening, being aware of my environment and looking out of AI as much as possible in order to make my approaches as productive as possible, so while I was dancing on the stage, I was actually screening the entire club. And right down in front of me, I saw a 2-set, both cute, one hooking up with a guy, and typically, her friend being left out, getting harassed by some AFCs that wouldn't let go. TARGET ACQUIRED. I stay on the stage, managed to get some EC, and at one point I kick the back of her head with my foot (accidental). I just high five her. 30 sec later, she was on the stage right near me.

Mrmatt: Don't you love it when you are out with your friend and she leave you alone to make out with some other guy?
...
Mrmatt: Oh, well, I will help you find another guy (and started pointing other random guys in the dancefloor. This shows non-neediness and separate from all the other chumps)
...
Mrmatt: You know what? Let's dance.

From there, it's mostly kino escalation. Dancing for 5-10 min, going for the kiss (no routine, just timing) and since I know we still need a better connection than plain physical if I want her to trust me and come home with me, (I was totally forgetting about other girl)), I tell her to go outside to catch a breeze. Outside, I do some small talk/emotional talk about her passions and her dream job, typical stuff, and asks her what she is doing tomorrow. A bit after, I simply say "I hope you are aware that you are coming home with me tonight", to which she complied.

At that point, my job was done, I sent a lame text to flake on other girl, she gave me shit and I ended up telling her to fuck off. But guys, remember that if you want to win a girl, you must be willing to lose a girl. Then, drove her home.. I cook a little something to eat, kiss a bit, and say the key words "lets go in bed".

Bedroom's door closes. Mrmatt's out.
Author:  skills360 [ Sat Apr 27, 2013 6:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
Quote:
April's 2013 update

I've been real busy with school and medical reasons lately, so I didn't really go out for most part of May and April. However, I just finished school and last week, I started going out again. Even if I personally think LR's are actually just a wait for guys to brag about their latest conquest, I've been told otherwise and that it can help others... So here's my LR from last week, the very same night I was back in the game.

Lay report 1

So after deciding that even if I still have a medication condition, I would go out with my buddies, we head out to the bar we usually go to and drink a beer or two. I wanted my comeback to be good, so I called a girl I flirted with a while ago, and she was waiting for me at another near bar. My plan was originally to spend some time with my friends, then head off to pick up the girl and bring her home. However, I still wanted to dance a little before going to meet her, so my friends and I headed on a stage that was located on the dancefloor.


1st approach

Recently, I've been focusing on screening, being aware of my environment and looking out of AI as much as possible in order to make my approaches as productive as possible, so while I was dancing on the stage, I was actually screening the entire club. And right down in front of me, I saw a 2-set, both cute, one hooking up with a guy, and typically, her friend being left out, getting harassed by some AFCs that wouldn't let go. TARGET ACQUIRED. I stay on the stage, managed to get some EC, and at one point I kick the back of her head with my foot (accidental). I just high five her. 30 sec later, she was on the stage right near me.

Mrmatt: Don't you love it when you are out with your friend and she leave you alone to make out with some other guy?
...
Mrmatt: Oh, well, I will help you find another guy (and started pointing other random guys in the dancefloor. This shows non-neediness and separate from all the other chumps)
...
Mrmatt: You know what? Let's dance.

From there, it's mostly kino escalation. Dancing for 5-10 min, going for the kiss (no routine, just timing) and since I know we still need a better connection than plain physical if I want her to trust me and come home with me, (I was totally forgetting about other girl)), I tell her to go outside to catch a breeze. Outside, I do some small talk/emotional talk about her passions and her dream job, typical stuff, and asks her what she is doing tomorrow. A bit after, I simply say "I hope you are aware that you are coming home with me tonight", to which she complied.

At that point, my job was done, I sent a lame text to flake on other girl, she gave me shit and I ended up telling her to fuck off. But guys, remember that if you want to win a girl, you must be willing to lose a girl. Then, drove her home.. I cook a little something to eat, kiss a bit, and say the key words "lets go in bed".

Bedroom's door closes. Mrmatt's out.

^ yep this is the right way to do it, look for opportunities or approach invites/body language, or force them, open, get compliance while escalating, arouse(raising buying temperature), and close... Well done Son! No more ROLLERBLADING DATES! Ma niggaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Author:  The_Giftt [ Sat Apr 27, 2013 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
def gonna follow this journal man, thank for the links again
Author:  MrMatt [ Sun May 12, 2013 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
Never give up

I decided to go out even though I wasn't really in the mood. The night started off well with us talking with about 3 sets before even getting in the club. I had high expectation/good motivation since I had just cleaned my room. So, as the night progress, I do my own thing, walking up to girls and flirting (however, I did not go to the dancefloor like I usually do because my stomach was in real pain). I decided to go outside to pick up girls, which was a total failure. I did not seen anything like that for at least a year. EVERY set I would approach would automatically reject me, or it wouldn't go anywhere.

I was starting to lose hope when I had a talk with my wing, and we both agreed that if the night doesn't get any better, we are not leaving until the club closes and after we tried everything. I probably got rejected 20 times in a row, with all different kinds of openers, trying every "method" in the book, and nothing was working.

Until, I saw a girl "friend" who I often see in clubs. Turns out she was with a real cutie so I started flirting with her friend, which I thought was really cool. Honestly, I was so out of the zone that I didn't do good with her too, but for some reason the girl I knew told me her friend liked me a lot.

Long story short, I got denied so many times in a row, almost lost hope but decided to keep trying, ended up meeting a real cutie that might be gf potential. I will def. see her again.

Never ever give up
Author:  skills360 [ Mon May 13, 2013 3:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
Quote:
Never give up

I decided to go out even though I wasn't really in the mood. The night started off well with us talking with about 3 sets before even getting in the club. I had high expectation/good motivation since I had just cleaned my room. So, as the night progress, I do my own thing, walking up to girls and flirting (however, I did not go to the dancefloor like I usually do because my stomach was in real pain). I decided to go outside to pick up girls, which was a total failure. I did not seen anything like that for at least a year. EVERY set I would approach would automatically reject me, or it wouldn't go anywhere.

I was starting to lose hope when I had a talk with my wing, and we both agreed that if the night doesn't get any better, we are not leaving until the club closes and after we tried everything. I probably got rejected 20 times in a row, with all different kinds of openers, trying every "method" in the book, and nothing was working.

Until, I saw a girl "friend" who I often see in clubs. Turns out she was with a real cutie so I started flirting with her friend, which I thought was really cool. Honestly, I was so out of the zone that I didn't do good with her too, but for some reason the girl I knew told me her friend liked me a lot.

Long story short, I got denied so many times in a row, almost lost hope but decided to keep trying, ended up meeting a real cutie that might be gf potential. I will def. see her again.

Never ever give up

I would not say never give up... I would say more like td says: "hammer till the bitter end"... You never know where the night will take you, and all you need is 1 girl for a snl... I had my best successes at the end of the night 10 minutes to close after horrible rejections, similar to your story.
Author:  MrMatt [ Tue May 14, 2013 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
Saturday night, a complex son of a night

Saturday night, my room is all clean, time to hit up the clubs with my wing for a promising night. It's been a while since I saw old FB so we decided to meet up there. That being said, I would not do much cold approaches since I would already be "matched".

So we get in the club, talk a bit, I meet up with my FB, no need to really talk about that, the usually cocky kino funny shit and kissing within minutes. However, I did not expect to see 2 girl friends from 2 days ago that presented me to their friend whom I thought was super cute. I spoke with them a bit, girls wanted to hang out with me but I told them I couldn't stay with them tonight (especially since their friend wasn't there. I could probably flirt with them too since they're hotties, maybe another time) and went back to my FB. At that point, my friend is texting a girl he is interested in (which I hooked up with before) to come meet us. I ditched FB to come see these girls outside to wing them a bit, and to my surprise, the girl I hooked up with in the past was with a super cute blond, and we really hit it off. In any given day, I would've flirted with her and took her home, but I was already taken for the night, so I left them without anyone noticing and went back to FB. Funny thing, when coming back in the club, I recognized a girl I gamed a month ago, and I ended up flaking on her when we had a date with a "fuck off" because I had found a ONS girl at another bar before our bar... It was pretty awkward. ANYWAYS, Had some fun with my date in the club, told her to come back home, she didn't want to leave just yet so I told her "too bad" and left. At that point, my wing was texting me for some wingman, I told him to go outside if he wanted me to wing the blondy. They did, but the blondy was sad/mad because she had her phone stolen. I just grab her and hug her for 15 min, sweet talk and flirt with her.

I am talking with her right now, I will most probably see her again. but yeah, fuck this is getting complicated to deal with all those girls in a night, I should probably start sarging in new and unknown places!
Author:  skills360 [ Tue May 14, 2013 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Journal of a whimpy chump
Quote:
Saturday night, a complex son of a night

Saturday night, my room is all clean, time to hit up the clubs with my wing for a promising night. It's been a while since I saw old FB so we decided to meet up there. That being said, I would not do much cold approaches since I would already be "matched".

So we get in the club, talk a bit, I meet up with my FB, no need to really talk about that, the usually cocky kino funny shit and kissing within minutes. However, I did not expect to see 2 girl friends from 2 days ago that presented me to their friend whom I thought was super cute. I spoke with them a bit, girls wanted to hang out with me but I told them I couldn't stay with them tonight (especially since their friend wasn't there. I could probably flirt with them too since they're hotties, maybe another time) and went back to my FB. At that point, my friend is texting a girl he is interested in (which I hooked up with before) to come meet us. I ditched FB to come see these girls outside to wing them a bit, and to my surprise, the girl I hooked up with in the past was with a super cute blond, and we really hit it off. In any given day, I would've flirted with her and took her home, but I was already taken for the night, so I left them without anyone noticing and went back to FB. Funny thing, when coming back in the club, I recognized a girl I gamed a month ago, and I ended up flaking on her when we had a date with a "fuck off" because I had found a ONS girl at another bar before our bar... It was pretty awkward. ANYWAYS, Had some fun with my date in the club, told her to come back home, she didn't want to leave just yet so I told her "too bad" and left. At that point, my wing was texting me for some wingman, I told him to go outside if he wanted me to wing the blondy. They did, but the blondy was sad/mad because she had her phone stolen. I just grab her and hug her for 15 min, sweet talk and flirt with her.

I am talking with her right now, I will most probably see her again. but yeah, fuck this is getting complicated to deal with all those girls in a night, I should probably start sarging in new and unknown places!

^ yes that is exactly what happens when you start going to the same venues, it sucks big time. That is why i had after a while to keep moving from city to city.
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