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Author:  luvmiddleage [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:31 am ]
Post subject:  Interesting interaction today
I have become somewhat fascinated by how women act around me (probably most of you have also). Anyway, I am having a conversation with a client today. She is older, but has a fantastic body and I couldn't help but think about her sexually because of it. I probably would never act on my attraction, given it is a business relationship, so I wasn't intentionally gaming her or anything, just really having a general conversation with her and being my usual social self (I am also fortunately attractive and have spent several years get back into shape). My awareness of female behavior around me has been greatly heightened by studying PUA and that has been probably the best part of it, but there is so much to learn.

Anyway, she suddenly mentions her husband and her "boyfriend" out of the blue. I am trying to figure out why she would bring this up. Any thoughts to why this may be? I can't figure out whether this was an I am open to relationships outside my marriage so please pursue me, back off I have two men in my life already (though she was complaining a bit about her husband), or just an innocent mentioning to explain the various men around her.
Author:  notreallyaPUA [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 12:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
Mystery says that women during flirtation will often mention their boyfriends/husbands as it's a way for them to psychologically free themselves of guilt, so it's like if anything happens it's YOUR fault and not hers (as she made it clear she was comitted). It could be a good sign but also with a description that brief there's no really way to know.
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
Really not much more to tell. I am guessing that if there was no attraction on her end, it would have never come up. She did say to me "I don't know why I am telling you this". Before reading pua stuff, I probably would have totally ignored what she said and brushed it off as small talk. Now for better or worse, I analyze almost every interaction I have with women. I do wonder if some subconscious actions are taken on my part driven by the pua information I have read. There was nothing I consciously did other than think what a sexy body she had.
Author:  Hitman_ [ Thu Jan 24, 2013 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
In my opinion, I think that WAS her way of saying she dates men outside of her marriage and I'd be SHOCKED if she didn't want you to pursue! I think you're in. :-)

Just my opinion.
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 1:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
Quote:
In my opinion, I think that WAS her way of saying she dates men outside of her marriage and I'd be SHOCKED if she didn't want you to pursue! I think you're in. :-)

Just my opinion.
Yeah, that's my gut feeling on the situation too. Can't say I haven't been thinking about pursuing it, though it isn't the wisest professional move. It would be nice to hit it. Even at my middle age, I am very much into older women and don't really go for women under 40. Question is, if I do want to, how can I make a move in this situation with plausible deniability? I won't be back to see her for another week. I am tempted to just say to her that I find her very attractive. Maybe even a little game of faking messing up something and while looking at her with half my lip up and a gleam in my eye say "I always get nervous around a beautiful woman" (though it will be obvious that I am cool as a cucumber). Given that she is older and I am pretty good looking and fit (especially for my age) it may work well. Although to figure out some reasonable kino based approach may be the best way to go. The only challenge there is that she almost always behind a desk when I see her. Damn, the more I think about her, the more I want it. Maybe I'll call her out of the blue and see if I can stop by, say that I enjoyed our conversation and I am in the area and have some time to kill.
Author:  donttakemywordasthetruth [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 1:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
It depends on how she said it.

Irrelevant: If a girl doesnt tell you she has a boyfriend after you do alot of kino pullings, does she want to know you or cheat on him.
Key Info: She shows interest in interwalls and stays in range after showing her no more interest. Gives eye contact but not too long, doesnt want a kiss but wants the touch. The boyfriend might have been there (I was her "gay friend" when cockblocking and pulling her out, she knew I was not, laughed told that to her friend and followed). Refuses to dance directly to me, turned away but dancing at intervals. After I did my quick demonstration of seductive dance lol. And she said if I am seeking a one night stand in here. I asked if I realy come off that sexualy towards her. She looked away and kept quiet and after her awkward moment she started asking personal info about me.
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 3:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
Don't really understand the relevance of your story to the thread. Anyway, at this point I am primarily wondering the best thing to do to test her and hint I am interested. I do need some plausible deniability given the professional nature of the relationship.
Author:  Hitman_ [ Fri Jan 25, 2013 8:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Interesting interaction today
For me it isn't the husband comment that has convinced me, it's the boyfriend comment she made. There was absolutely no reason to mention this and a bit like proximity (where a girl has no real reason to stand close to you but does) I'll put this in the same bracket.
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