What the fuck.. this was one of the most incredible nights of breakthrough I’ve ever had in my game, I actually performed just like Julien does in Hot Seat for a few short interactions.
The Night:
As I went down in the elevator of my building I suddenly had the realisation that the girl actually doesn’t fucking matter at all and that her being there is just a bonus, this is a realization tying in with the concept of Freedom From Outcome or in other words, NOT GIVING A FUCK, a big help for this is Moran (one of the bootcamp assistants) who gave me the analogy that he could just-as-well be gaming a wall and he’d still feel amazing.
I was driving to Rothschild street in Tel-Aviv and I was pretty excited to try out my new epiphany, as I parked and got out of the car I’ve felt a great deal of momentum and certainty from going out consistently over the last few nights. I walked in the street and ended up in a coffee shop called Landver Coffee, I sat there and drank my tea like a little bitch just like I always do, I stepped out of the shop all ready to GAME!
What I found to my misfortune is that I was stuck in my head and unable to approach, I’ve kept pushing and pushing though when suddenly I had ANOTHER epiphany regarding Intent+Freedom From Outcome (I believe I finally cracked the code and I now ACTUALLY INTERNALIZED what it means to be Clear In Your Intent and Free From Outcome (these are the 2 most important concepts for success with women)), I’ve approached my first girl, pretty low energy but will full Clarity and Freedom From Outcome, it went pretty well but I was soft on it.
What followed was about an hour of my walking around like an idiot fully experiencing a life-shifting change in perspective as I finally started piecing together in my head what I was missing all this time, I was finally FREE.
I called a very close lady-friend of mine Rachel and drove to pick her up from her home, we then went back to the exact place I parked earlier and discussed my amazing realizations (she is a fat chick who makes about 500,000$ a year and fucked more than 200 women, oh and she’s 19), as I was walking her to my car (she was leaving) I saw a girl and immediately opened her with the Hand of God opener, she came close to me, then started leaving, I was still holding her hand, pulled back to me, claw her, we look deep in each other’s eyes, I FORGET to makeout (looking back it was fully on), and just let her go to celebrate probably my best open EVER.
For the next hour and a half I was touring the street looking for girls, I approached a lot less girls than I could because I was so in-shock but the event earlier (I actually reached a new level, because I knew this wasn’t a fluke, I actually knew how I did it and how to RECREATE IT), approached about 5 girls very chill and low energy with the first set actually being SUPER physical but the girl left because I wasn’t clear enough in my intent, last set I almost pulled back to her home (32 years old Moroccan girl) but fucked it up because I became outcome dependent and lost my charisma I’ve opened with.
Overall it was an amazing night, didn’t fuck or get a makeout but it’s still fucking amazing because it was my breakthrough night finally after many nights since bootcamp of being stuck in a rut. I’m honestly blown away by how I’ve improved SUDDENLY AND IN JUST ONE NIGHT, I expect to have an insane run soon, maybe 3-4 lays in 1 week, at the very-least a night of like 5-10 makeouts.
Fixes For Next Time:
* Should have made-out with the girl where I’ve opened amazing, next time remember to makeout, now that I’ve finally learned exactly how to open very physical and reach the makeout point I expect to really go insane with lot of instant makeouts in the next few nights.
* When I was with the 32y/o Moroccan girl I’ve seen a few girls who were much younger and more attractive and I should-have definitely approached them instead of staying with her (this is the reason I’ve lost her)
* Approach about 500% more girls than now, I noticed I don’t approach many girls because I didn’t approach at the very first second I’ve seen them because I wasn’t clear in my intent, the whole point of being clear in your intent is actually APPROACHING these chicks EVEN THOUGH I fail to at first..!
Overall, best night I had in a LONG TIME, again, I expect to see AMAZING things soon, this is really awesome because I’ve also started going back to the gym and my life is really coming back on course again, I’m extremely excited and let’s see where the future brings us!