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| Author: | sweetbridge [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 5:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Home is where the game is |
Here's my experience on using your house/apt/dorm/etc to the betterment of your game. Steps 1-2 apply to dates only. 1. She comes to you. For dates, I always tried to have the girl come over to my place instead of picking her up or meeting her somewhere. That leads right into... 2. The tour. I can't take credit for this next tip, but it must be passed along because it's crucial. When she comes over for the first time, give her a tour of your place, but do not hit on her. At all. No flirting. I even made it a point to never touch her during this. Give her a quick tour of your place and then go on your way. This lets her see your place in a very non-threatening way. Later when you two return, she already knows the lay of the land and has some comfort. Steps 3-7 are just general tips. 3. Doorways. Never stand in the doorway of a room that she's in. It can send off a non-verbal threatening message that you're blocking the doorway and she's trapped. Both of you mentally know that's not what's happening, doesn't matter. Dodge the bullet and just step aside. Also, be the first to leave a room, so that she's walking behind you and not the other way around. All of this is about comfort and security. 4. Some rooms over others. Everyone knows cleanliness is key. I've found that it's more important in some rooms over others. You don't have to be squeaky clean everywhere. She knows you're a guy. If the whole place is spotless it may raise some questions. I get the most bang for the buck in the kitchen. Keep a clean kitchen and you will hear praises from her. No dishes in the sink. No drying racks out. Clean countertops and stove. Get out a vase and buy some of those $4.99 bouquets they sell at the grocery store. She will tell her friends. 5. Bed making game. Making my bed became part of my ritual. Think of it as inner game if you like. Make your bed before you go out at night with the thought that someone else is going to see it later if you want them to. No chick wants to get into those tangled sheets you've got waiting for her. When you meet a girl, you already know you're ready. 6. Music. Several playlists, sure. Pick songs that aren't obviously about sex or romance. Have a variety of stuff from around the world. You meet a Cuban girl and you've got some Ibrahim Ferrer already on your computer, you just bought yourself two weeks. A couple of songs per culture at least. 7. Shower. Day one of being single involves buying a new shower curtain. That mold kills game on contact. Keep that bathroom straight. Specks off the mirror. Have a couple clean fluffy towels at the ready. And spend the extra $1.50 and get the nice toilet paper. Those were the thoughts. |
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