HbCuteBlonde
What Worked?
I stopped and said high, felt myself drawn to her, watched her pupils dialate as I ran the "Have You Ever Pattern" with her, discussed a story (false... I need to stop with this lying shit PERIOD. I hate it.) about the how this girl and I interacted with each other over a pound of ground beef... there WAS a girl there who DID like me, but she didn't tap me like I said she did nor did we even TOUCH this ground beef (plus, what if the girl was a vegetarian? I prefer vegetarians or vegans.). It worked and held her attention as I we discussed weird places to meet (inspired by her phrase, "It's a really weird location to meet.")
I think this worked at first until you see what you see in the next section. .
Furthermore, what worked is that I kept on thinking along the pattern of Tony Robbins's Six Human Needs. I constantly fed things in like, "It'll make you feel super important should we continue this conversation," as well as "I feel that we're in a sense of trust and total respect right here," Hopefully you're in a sense of fun and engagement here."
What Didn't Work?
Discussing that time I volunteered with this other girl didn't work. Talking to her about random stuff while expecting her to come up with the stories didn't work. It's plain and obvious that I neglected to do all the stuff that I've literally HAD to have engrained in my head just by BEING in the PUA community for 5 years now! It's ridiculous... what didn't work is "Not using what works" lol!
Furthermore, I didn't get anywhere NEAR close enough to her. It's really important that I get into a close enough distance to really create that sense of closeness with each other.
(How am I supposed to really engage her physically from six feet away?)
What I Learned?
I need to reframe EVERYTHING. If I should decide to stop my run, I definitely need to reframe it from, "Oh wow, he really wants me," to "Wow, you had better have something good to say, because I definitely stopped my run for an attractive being, but just because my biology says I like you, doesn't mean that I as an intellectual need to like you." Or something like that.
Furthermore, I've learned that I can definitely align my processes of body language (The Steps of the Universal Mating Sequence from David D's Body Language,) the 2 Steps Forward, 1 Step Back philosophy, Ball busting ALL THE TIME, constantly mastering Speed Seduction materials, and ESPECIALLY using what REALLY worked before, which included things like the cube, calibration, observation with questions!
Oh man, I can definitely use calibration to a newer and higher level now because of upturns in tonality! WHOA
