I couldn't sleep last night so I thought I'd go sarging online, but to keep it a challenge I wasn't using a dating website or anything like that, just an app full of unsuspecting people. I've seen a lot of stuff lately, on here as well as youtube etc, even on re-runs of Keys to the VIP (great show for a laugh and to see how bad some of the other PUAs are), that negging is something for newbies.
Well it's not. A neg can be extremely useful to really turn the tide. Not every approach goes how you'd play it out in your head, and sometimes a girl will think you're rude, maybe a bit creepy or whatever.
Here's an example that came up last night:
(The premise of the app is you ask questions, people answer and you can have a private conversation from there, so my answer was practically a compliment)
HB8: Thanks
Me: Any time
HB8:
Me: You know.. Social convention is that you now give me a compliment. I'll give you a hint, I'm a pretty good kisser
HB8: Cool story bro
Me: Ha! Not biting at all ay
HB8: Nope I just play hard to get
Me: Yeah you girls usually do, y'all want to be treated like you're different but you're all the same
HB8: Well whats up your ass (She didn't understand the tone of the last message so I had to explain which you'll see in a second.
Me: Nothing, why? Are you into that stuff?
HB8: Maybe, but you're acting mean
Me: The comment before my last one was meant to come across as cheeky but its hard to convey that on here.. So what are you into? Anything kinky?Note that I didn't apologise like an AFC would
HB8: Oh haha what's kinky??As soon as she realised the tone of her messages changed entirely and all of them had "haha" in somewhere
Me: Is this a new word for you or are you just looking for clues to impress me?
HB8: New word haha
Me: Things that turn you on that are a little bit risque or challenge certain societal ideas. Ranging from using handcuffs or roleplay through to hardcore S&M. Or if you're a massive creep then it'd be feet.
HB8: Haha I like cuddling
Me: Oh shiiiiiit. You live on the edge! You're innocent though, that can be pretty tough to find these days.
HB8: Haha
I like other thing but you have to guessYou can see here that she's now the one pushing the conversation, doing the work for me and has completely changed from the first few exchanges. The rest of the conversation isn't relevant to this topic but I've included it for a good example of something elseMe: Ah I love guessing games. What do I win if I guess right?
HB8: Whatever you want
Me: I want... whatever the right answer turns out to be This is the best answer you can give to this exact question. You don't come across as a creepy guy looking for a hook up but a fun guy who doesn't mind trying new things, but then allows you to be a pervert in your answers, as you'll see
HB8: OK
Me: Is it... Sex with strangers you just met online?
HB8: Haha maybe
Me: We should probably exchange some contact info then
And that's as far as I should probably post online. I'm sure you guys will find holes all over my game but please remember I was only doing this to amuse myself online. I have no intention in meeting people in person that I met online, and generally just prefer sarging in reality.