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Author:  Mateothegreat [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 8:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Last nights date

ok so i met this girl at a big halloween soiree my family through last weekend, actually i had know her for a while but only aquatinted as she used to be employed by my stepmother, any way that night i number closed and she texted me an hour later which seemed an obvious IOIS.

(i should go back a little and say that for the last 4 weeks i have been making some changes for the better in myself, i started working out everyday, grooming my facial hair into a class a trimmed mustache and beard even trimming body hair and pubes, etc etc, long story short ive been feeling pretty damn good about myself) anyway

so after texting back and forth we finally met up tonight, felt good to go on a date though i still felt it hard to really focus on the game looking for IOIs keeping a good flow of conversation without tripping up or moving it to fast, and i did okay, i tried the hand squeeze move to see how close i could get, in a way like i was looking at her jewelry. actually i did it twice and she didn't back off but when i gently squeezed she didnt exactly squeeze back either, so not sure how to think of it. another thing was eye contact, kept worrying about which way i should remove my contact from hers as to know through her the wrong conclusion, and i think i may have made some forced movements because of it

night progressed and she talked me into singing karoke, which shook my nerves a bit, but knowing that i fronted several rock bands in my time and have a decent voice thought it would be a great game stealer and way to win her over. I plaid it off cool, now that i think if it i thought it was a pretty damn good way to stay cool and hide how nervous i was by telling her that i worried i would suck. I sang some hotel california and won the crowd over, when i came back to the table a played off to her like i was removing the sweat from my forehead, which she giggled at. then told me i was really good, and said she would tell me if she thought i sucked

so end of the night I guided her through the bar by the swell of her back and walked her to her car where she told me we should do this again next friday, i played it cool and said i wouldn't have my schedule till sunday night and id get back to her. i went in for a kiss though it ended up being a cheek thing and I cant recall if its because i chickened out or she turned her head.

in the end im not sure where its going though i am hoping that any damage that was done i can still FC on the next date or two, or at least KC on the next one then FC on the 3rd.... hoping any of you PUA's out there can through me a bone where they think its going, and what i should do next.....

so lessons are:
FUCKING PAY ATTENTION
FUCKING STAY CALM AND RELAX aka, just have a good time
WORK EYE CONTACT AND BOD LANGUAGE
I HAVE A LONG WAYS TO GO
REMEMBER SHE WANTS IT AS MUCH AS I DO
and lastly whatever happens keep my chin up and keep going

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