So im at a sports bar on football sunday. I notice a very cute girl and i made some eye contact nothing big. I've been really down on myself lately so i couldnt imagine approaching. But on my way to the back door she blocks the way and starts making conversation with me. We had some ok regular conversation. She gets touchy feely. Putting her hand on my arm and repeatedly touching my chest. Then i hit my sticking point which is i dont know how to turn regular "get to know eachother" conversation into actual comfortable conversation. I don't know how to get to the n-close or any close. I just have a really tough time actually getting a spirited and genuine conversation going. She was obviously interested in me but i just dont find any girls to be genuinely interesting. So i don't know how to really build that rapport. So after a bit of conversation i ended up just walking away and hanging with my buddies until we met up later and said bye to each other.

I have good body language. I leaned on my back foot and was making her lean into me to talk. My biggest issue is actually making stimulating conversation and converting from that regular "interview" type stuff into some intimate stuff.