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Author:  ッ.jp [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  ッ.jp - Road to a PUA: An AFC - PUA journey.
Hey guys. This is my journey from an AFC to a PUA. Hopefully I will become everything and more that I am constantly being inspired by and can share some of my learning experiences, burns and closes.

This won't be a daily thing, but I will obviously be going out as often as possible. I am currently working my ass off to get a tonne of money before uni.

Background:
I am ッ.jp (tsu.jp) and I am an AFC. I used to be the kind of social person who spoke to people with interests in a very, very narrow niche. On top of this I spent almost all my time on my PC, playing games with people online.

I have a passion for Japan and decided to visit it after I finished high school last year. The trip was awesome and changed me, I realised what kind of life I was living. I went clubbing there, and couldn't do anything. The place was filled with HB7+, everyone was grinding and I was the one guy who was dancing in close proximity simply because it was a mosh pit, not because I was smooth or any kind of PUA. At that point I decided I have to change this.

When I got back from Japan I started becoming more social, I left my gaming clan I made. I stopped being a PC obsessed person and began talking to customers at work beyond "that's 5.95 thanks." I am no pro on keeping a conversation going out of thin air yet but I am a god compared to my old self.

So I am essentially starting from a little above ground zero. I am 18 (in July) and I hope this will change my life for the better, because this is something I want a lot and am prepared to work for. But time will tell that :D

Things I know which I will work on first:
- I'm an AFC.
- I have some AA.
- I am not a pro fluffer yet.
- I need more clothes.

Relevant concerns:
- I am sceptical on using openers etc... because I have never spoken like that before. I hope that being so far out of my comfort zone will make me man the hell up.

Milestones to break:
- Hooking up, properly.
- Virginity.
- LTR, after a while.

Kudos:
- To AFC Daniel who inspired me to make a journal and who is one of many to inspire me towards become a PUA. My format is essentially his.
- AFC Daniels journal: (when I reach 5 posts haha).

LET'S DO THIS!
Author:  ッ.jp [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:37 pm ]
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Exertion 1
I was at a party doing some photography for the event. The place was about 60% girls so I decided to approach some.

I opened by asking if they wanted their picture and proceeded by showing them (to get closer) and asking how they knew the host. Almost every reply was that they went to the same high school and I blanked out each time. I didn't have anything else to say that wouldn't result in the 'conversation' turning into an interview. My next line-up was simply: "are you having fun then?"

What I learnt
- I can't make conversation to people I know nothing about by myself.
- I need to learn some openers, approach more people and try those openers.
- I have AA, I wasn't spontaneous enough.

Stats
Approaches: 8
Number close: 0
Full close: 0

If anyone has any tips do share :3
Author:  AFC Daniel [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:16 pm ]
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Hey buddy,

Great job at putting yourself out there! I see you're struggling a bit with social skills... I had the same issue at the beginning. Forget about numbers for now, work on your social skills.

What you want to do is being able to make a perfect strange smile while having a interaction with you... in other word, have a friendly and funny interaction. Don't be boring, and get them talking basically.

First of all, I would add a small part to your report where you basically lie down what you could have done better... Now that it's over... what could you do to push the interaction further? For example, when some girls spoke about the high school thing... what could you have said?

I've stumbled upon a nice article on conversation starters... maybe it can help you: http://www.towerofpower.com.au/101-conv ... n-starters

Then, if you still struggle with that, go to a mall and go to girls' stores... pretend you're looking for a gift for a sister/cousin and get the conversation flowing with the employees.

Good luck! :)
Author:  ッ.jp [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 11:09 am ]
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Hey Daniel,

I have an assignment to get 5 numbers before the 24th and I am going to give it a shot but I just though I'd ask something first:

1. If I am to DHV to encourage her to give my number how should I do it without sounding arrogant, or is that the goal?

2. I've read that ultimate list of negs and it's almost like insulting, how is that going to work? Or is it because I have the confidence to say that that she drops her bitch-shield?

3. How should I ask for the number? Should I just be like "Hey you're fun, I gotta skip right now but can I grab your number so we can hang out again?"

I know you said to skip numbers for now and work on social skills, but this is an bootcamp assignment so I have to :D

Cheers,

ッ.jp
Author:  AFC Daniel [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:45 pm ]
Post subject: 
Hey there!

1. You don't have enough time for any DHVing story I think... DHV will come from your attitude, a good BL, eye contact... You can also work the space you're in... If you're in a bus, joke around with the driver, eye contact everyone... basically own the place... That's how I would DHV in Day Game.

2. Forget about negs... You are still struggling with social interaction as far as I've seen. Focus on having a good social interaction for now. But to answer your question, negs are all about making your target understand you are high-value. What about focusing on actually being high-value instead of bringing your target down?

3. The issue will be the transition... but your example is good... "hey I gotta go know, but you know what, you're fun... give me your number" bla bla (dont ask: "can I?", say "give me"). The ideal thing is to seed an event... did you compliment her on her clothing? what about transitioning to "give me you number, you'll help me shopping, I need to change my style"

Good luck!
Author:  ッ.jp [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 3:50 pm ]
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Quote:
Hey there!

1. You don't have enough time for any DHVing story I think... DHV will come from your attitude, a good BL, eye contact... You can also work the space you're in... If you're in a bus, joke around with the driver, eye contact everyone... basically own the place... That's how I would DHV in Day Game.

2. Forget about negs... You are still struggling with social interaction as far as I've seen. Focus on having a good social interaction for now. But to answer your question, negs are all about making your target understand you are high-value. What about focusing on actually being high-value instead of bringing your target down?

3. The issue will be the transition... but your example is good... "hey I gotta go know, but you know what, you're fun... give me your number" bla bla (dont ask: "can I?", say "give me"). The ideal thing is to seed an event... did you compliment her on her clothing? what about transitioning to "give me you number, you'll help me shopping, I need to change my style"

Good luck!
Cheers man.

I haven't been doing anything lately but I will be going out soon. Working a lot but I will find the time.

Will post some stuff soon :D

Cheers,

ッ.jp
Author:  ッ.jp [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 7:16 pm ]
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Okay it's been about a month and I have done fuck all =.=

I will start posting more often now, cos it's only hurting me.

I have no money to go out but I am talking to some girls online.

I am just wondering if anyone has some tips for this? Ice breakers, how to end the conversation nicely? Make her want to talk to me in future?

That kind of stuff.
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