So i tried Sasha daygames's method of just having fun and approaching people. i didnt even say a word to open this girl she was working i just stood next to her in the same position as she was in and right away she started laughing i chatted her up for about 3-5 min after that and without asking she gave me her number and asked me to call her. all in all i was impressed i thought the dude was crazy but his shit works. so this is a big thanks to Sasha for putting his thoughts and info out there for people like me to study.