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Author:  Blackcurrant [ Thu May 10, 2012 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  Confusing HB8, stops sex halfway, Playette
Hi guys I'll keep this short and simple; I met a Playette HB8 through Facebook. She added me "on accident" and we've gone out with each other for awhile.

We met at the mall last Monday and after lunch we decided to head back to my place (initiatiated by me). We watch a few youtube videos and began to make out. I qualified her a little by saying how she was different from my previous flings and how I kissed her so differentlly. I DHVed her by saying how I didn't like to kiss my previous fling because she always made me kiss her after I ended in her mouth.

Things got a bit heated and she starts to give me a blowjob. Halfway through the blowjob, she stops and says she doesn't want to do it. I ask why and she says she doesn't want us just meeting for blowjobs/sex in the future. She said previously that she saw me as a potential boyfriend more than a fling or friend-with-benefits.

What does she really mean? Can I take her words at face value?

We did a bit of texting over the past few days. I push/pulled and flirted with her and she played along.

Me: Hey babydoll how's school? Missing you.. a little.
Her: I'm settling some committee stuff in dance now. I kinda sorta maybe miss ya too :)
Me: Outrageous :) you'll get a good spanking for that.
Her: Bring it on babe. ;)
Me: Spontaneous, just the way i'd like my girlfriend ;)
Her: Love it when my man knows what he wants ;)
Me: Why of course darling
Her: If you break off with your fwb won't you feel sexually deprived
Me: A little, but i know its not what I want

The texts ended with me asking her out for supper and her rejecting my offer and saying she won't be free until June.

Me: Drink more water babe. Meet me for supper tonight?
Her: Don't think I'll be able to. I'll probably be able to meet you during my June break?
Me: Haha ok

*Conversation stops*

Frankly speaking I like her a little more than I should and I'm pretty sick of having flings. Had a few previously and being with her gives me a good feeling. I don't know if i'm in the right forum though, I do understand its a pick-up artist forum.

Nevertheless, I need advice. What the fuck happened; why did she stop the blowjob? Is she just leading me on? She admitted herself that she has the tendency to lead guys on. Any tips guys? And feel free to criticise my approach, I'm here to learn.
Author:  LBot [ Thu May 10, 2012 2:10 pm ]
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You are probably right about her being a playette, In my opinion she stopped half way to leave you wanting more.

For example if she knew she was going to be busy through until june and she finished the blowjob that would be a victory for you with no incentive to try and see her again when she was avaliable.

Thats all I can really think of, she wanted to give you a taste of what could be happening in june.
Along with some mild testing.

Your texting seems good so I don't see an issue with that.
Author:  Blackcurrant [ Sun May 13, 2012 7:39 am ]
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Quote:
You are probably right about her being a playette, In my opinion she stopped half way to leave you wanting more.

For example if she knew she was going to be busy through until june and she finished the blowjob that would be a victory for you with no incentive to try and see her again when she was avaliable.

Thats all I can really think of, she wanted to give you a taste of what could be happening in june.
Along with some mild testing.

Your texting seems good so I don't see an issue with that.
I'm playing it cool now via text, She tried to sh1t test me.

Here's the continued convo:
Her: Make sure you fill your tummy
Me: Thanks cutie you too ;)
Her: Yeah, enjoy your Friday night ;) (sh1t test)
Me: Thx, have an awesome friday night too ;)
Her: I did ;) wakey wakey
Me: Good for you ;) Just had driving. Going to town soon. Have fun w ur hw ;)
Her: This wink thing can be so misleading. Alright have fun. And yes because assignments just blow my mind
Me: Yes I can sense your enthusiasm from here
Her: :):):)
Me: Weird guy dancing on the train. Tell me, are all dancers like that?
Her: *gives me some random explanation*
Me: Dinosaurs roamed the land 65 million years ago
Her: Glad that you've been enlightened on that score. Anw good morning to you babe
Me: Morning cutie

Any tips on how to take it further?
Author:  LBot [ Sun May 13, 2012 4:36 pm ]
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Plan some fun stuff that you want to do with her in june and book it in.

Just a casual text saying "Hey Babe I really want to do ......... we have to go and do that on ......"

Something like that.
Author:  Blackcurrant [ Fri May 18, 2012 2:55 pm ]
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Quote:
Plan some fun stuff that you want to do with her in june and book it in.

Just a casual text saying "Hey Babe I really want to do ......... we have to go and do that on ......"

Something like that.
I'm so annoyed because she keeps leading me on. We were getting sexual in our texts but she stopped. How should I react?
Author:  LBot [ Fri May 18, 2012 3:02 pm ]
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My method is to to do a bit of light teasing and sexual escalation just enough to get that into the back of her mind to stop LJBF creeping in and she see's me as a sexual being and not someone who will go shopping with her. Key is not to overdo it or they will stop texting.
After organising a date. I'll go back to work on comfort briefly. During date I'm escalating kino which builds the attraction up some more and gives me an idea if I'm wasting my time or not.

Texting really sexually for a month before you guys can see each other isn't going to work.Time constraints like that are a killer, I tend to move to a date as fast as I can.

Give it some time and go back to a funny text or something.
Author:  rakeal [ Fri May 18, 2012 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Confusing HB8, stops sex halfway, Playette
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I DHVed her by saying how I didn't like to kiss my previous fling because she always made me kiss her after I ended in her mouth.
lmao

I believed the girl until you mentioned she admitted being a tease. It's a shit test. You are playing the role of a player. She is testing your reality.

Ask yourself this question. What got her in the first place? Do what ever that was.
Author:  Blackcurrant [ Sun May 20, 2012 3:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Confusing HB8, stops sex halfway, Playette
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I DHVed her by saying how I didn't like to kiss my previous fling because she always made me kiss her after I ended in her mouth.
lmao

I believed the girl until you mentioned she admitted being a tease. It's a shit test. You are playing the role of a player. She is testing your reality.

Ask yourself this question. What got her in the first place? Do what ever that was.
I still don't have a clear picture of what got her in the first place. By "get her" you're referring to the blowjob?
Author:  Blackcurrant [ Sun May 20, 2012 3:14 am ]
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Quote:
My method is to to do a bit of light teasing and sexual escalation just enough to get that into the back of her mind to stop LJBF creeping in and she see's me as a sexual being and not someone who will go shopping with her. Key is not to overdo it or they will stop texting.
After organising a date. I'll go back to work on comfort briefly. During date I'm escalating kino which builds the attraction up some more and gives me an idea if I'm wasting my time or not.

Texting really sexually for a month before you guys can see each other isn't going to work.Time constraints like that are a killer, I tend to move to a date as fast as I can.

Give it some time and go back to a funny text or something.
Yeah, i'm gonna put my eggs in other baskets. Did a bit of sarging yesterday and got 3 n-closes.

She texted me again. It went something like this:

Me: My schedule's packed. I'm going to a secret island in June too ;)
Her: Have fun then babe :)
Me: Def. I'll have a blast :)
Her: :)
Me: Practice making your salad
Her: It's already so good. It'll keep you coming back for more ;)
Me: Driving's so hard ;)
Her: Nothing you can't overcum
Me: Oh baby ;) i'm enjoying it
Her: You deserve it love
Me; Fuck yeah, go deeper darling
Her: That's what she said

She just led me on again

Me: Cool
Her: You deserve better :)
Me: Sure :) You try too hard
Her: Oh
Her: Have you fallen asleep

Any advice on how to handle her? Should I freeze her out for a week? I really don't have a clear picture of what she wants. I know she likes sex and she's hanging with me because I DHVed and she thinks i'm a good catch.
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