Hello guys,
I am a 20 year old student from Holland. I started reading the Game 2 months ago and I am a frequent visitor of this forum since a week and a half. From the first page the Game had me. Reading the posts on this forum gives me an euphoric feeling. Me myself I am not a natural talent, feel kind of uncomfortable near women. Not that I do not like them, but I am afraid of failure. So I started to read this forum and the Neil Straus book, to see whether I could teach myself some routines, openers etc. to guide me through a conversation with women. To make sure that I know what to say and to prevent myself from being stuck in my own thoughts.
I used my cellphone as information centre. I made a lay out with some canned openers, routines and possible closers. Non of them are made up myself, I just copied them from the book and this forum.
Yesterday night I went out with a friend of mine and I decided to give it a try. I wanted to use the gathered information in real life, instead of not daring to try.
Once we entered the bar, we chose position near the bar itself. We had a good overview and all the HB's had to pass us, since we were close to the bathroom as well. As said before, I never used an well organized structure before. I negged, I opened, but I never used them all together in one set.
As I approached my first target, I opened her with Chris Rock's "Who lies more" opener. Of course she did not agree and the ice was broken, we discussed my question and in the end I convinced her
. After the opener I started with the "5 lies game" unfortunately, she got me on that one, so I had to give her the credits. She enjoyed the game and after her reward (a beer) I read her handpalm. She was completely flabbergasted that I knew to tell her some of her characteristics, that I saw that her respect for me was growing. (Even without the usual neg to start with). She started to look me deeper in the eyes and she was telling her girlfriends that I was some sort of magician. She also responded very well to kino and she even kept holding my hand for a couple of seconds after the "palmreading". My friend, wingman, in this story was dealing with her girlfriends all the time. Now it was time to demonstrate higher value. I remembered an incubus69 post, where he wrote down 6 DHV stories. I decided to pick "the nieces birthday" and tell this to her. I ended with the question if she ever had witnessed anything comparable. That moment I knew I had her. She did not know what she was hearing and told me an extremely personal story about her niece as well, she even told me that she had never told anyone before. She was so enthusiastic. I asked her, whether she would kiss me or not and she immediately responded with a yes and we kissed. She got my hand and took me outside where we got more intimate. The story about "my niece" really touched her and she even told that with a story like that, every woman would possibly fall for me. After an hour or so, we returned and I told her that I had to go my friend again, that I could not leave him there with her girlfriends and she agreed. When being with her I tried to be cocky and funny in the same time. It went well and she responded just positive on my words.When we were back inside I saw this other girl. This time I did not open with "Who lies more", but I opened with the Dental Floss opener. She just kept laughing and after giving my opinion on "the case" she finally told me her findings. (First flossing then brushing). The set was opened once again perfectly and I decided to use the same approach as I did with girl 1. Once again I went perfectly. And when kiss closing her, she responsed with YES! (I used caps lock because she really yelled the YES at me). So I closed this one successful as well.
When looking back to my first experience in the field I am very positive. I never expected that my start would be this good. While busy with this set I mainly focused on making deep eye contact and I tried to have all 6 of the 5 Alpha male characteristics.
I hope to share some more field reports with you. Please comment, if you like my approach, but also comment on things you do not like I am always eager to learn.
Svennos1234