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| Author: | Niles [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 9:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | my first two dates as an aspiring PUA (advice apreciated) |
Hi guys, Only been about two weeks since I started reading about PUA, but since I can not wait to put some of the things I have read to the test, I 've set up two dates, one HB 6,5 and one HB 7,5. The 6,5 would be great to practice some techniques on I guess... She is coming to my house this afternoon. Met her this summer and we coincidentally got into touch again this week. I already made it appear to her in texts (in a playful way) as if she is coming on to me and not the other way around. Tricked her into doing a little dance for me (which she stupidly promised in a text, so we 'll see how that works out. I do think however that she is really shy, so even when encouraged she might not take any initiative at all ... On the other hand, I do not want to come accross as craving for her attention, so I am not sure yet of how to handle it. Other girl (great body) is coming on saturday evening. I'll keep you updated if you're interested. Advice and pointers would be welcome;) PS: note that I'm a 20 year-old caucasian Belgian, height slightly below average, quite broad and athletic, outgoing, but having some issues with eye contact and minor tics (such as tapping my feet on the ground and some other things). |
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| Author: | Niles [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 11:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | First succes |
Date went great yesterday. Picked her up and complained she was making my car seat all wet (it was raining and she had been standing in it). At my place, I tried the cube for the first time ever (it is still relatively unknown to Belgian girls, so untill I find something of my own, it will do just fine:)). She thought it was accurate to some degree, but it did not really impress her, so maybe I did not execute it up to scratch. Then, because one day she had promised to do a dance for me, she did not want to do it, I said I'd give her one more chance to not have to do it which was playing a retro-game on my PS1 called tekken (she told me how she had really liked that game when she was a girl). It was great fun, and of course I won. She complained that she did not know the moves (I said I'd show her some moves allright) Of course I won, and made her do the dance. I laughed but said it nevertheless looked quite sexy. Invited her to sit next to me in the sofa. She was quite talkative (she's really shy so that was rather unexpected). I lead the conversation into the subject of attraction and then used the evolution phase routine on her (also first time I used it). We K-closed: I had the feeling there was more in it, but she promised her parents to be home by dinner (she is a 19-year old student), so I had to leave it at that. |
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| Author: | pyuya [ Sun Apr 22, 2012 1:27 am ] |
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congrats on the two dates. good move with the text about the dance, only thing maybe don't be pushy about making her do the dance. she gotta decide that for herself that she wants to do it. making her or being pushy might backfire. but don't be too shy either and never make a move (my problem). maybe put on a movie or a romantic comedy and sit with her on the couch and put her arm around her and make out. i dont have much experience, but if you have something to do like eat or watch a movie it kind of makes things easier for girls rather than when you two are alone with no activity to distract you with. my guess is that you are a good looking guy and you can easily get lots more dates. for the eye contact, take any dancing lesson and just do eye contact on and off with your partner. that's how i learned playful eye contact. |
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