Okay guys so its been a few weeks since I've posted here.
So the 30 yr old HB9 I met and built instant rapport with is now my gf. Since then we have went partying in LA together and she's met my parents because they happen to stay in the area we were visiting. We've been dating for about 4 weeks now. Things have been great. It is funny because in the past I've been horrible in relationships but ever since becoming a part of this community my life has changed. She is sooo attracted to me to the point that when we are together she can't keep her hands or lips off me. She always talks about how attractive, and cocky I am and how she likes it. She talks about how its hard for her to figure out how I feel or my current state.
in other words she is saying I'm interesting and not a pathetic insecure wimp..probably like her pass men. In one of my other post I stated that she has two young kids. I believe this is her insecurity the fact she is a single mom with kids. And i guess she feels like this will run most guys off. Did I mention I am younger than her..by 10 years. I'm 20! She pays for most of our dates. She actually wired money into my account to buy her a TV and put in extra $200 for me! She makes me breakfast in the a.m, buys me drinks. She really is awesome girl. I love the relationship we have but I think in the future the kids thing will be an issue because she doesnt want anymire kids and i don't have any yet. So we will see...I think eventually the differences in age will begin to show as issues arise. She is at the point of marriage and I haven't even begain to live yet. Idk what's you guys thoughts on this?
Anyway but just because of this situation its not stopping me from keeping my options open.
So there's this girl at my school and I've been wanting to talk to her for the longestt but never really got the chance. Each time I see her she will make eye contact and then look off like most chicks do.
So today I seen her walking into a building I was in as I was sitting down. I catch her as she begins to walk up the steps. She is definitely a HB10! So at this point I couldn't think of a opener so i had to act..FAST! It was fight or flight.
Me: Hey excuse me(she turns around and look) You look familiar, I think I know you from some where?
HB10: oh yeah? I wonder where?
Me: I usually do a lot of studying in the library, you go in there often?
HB10: yeah actually I do! I love how quit it is in there.
Me: cool! My names ____
HB10: *smiles* nice to meet you. I'm _______
And from here I was in..all I did was continue to build rapport and eventually finished with a # close. Funny thing , I tried to reach out and shake her hand as I told her I had to leave and it was nice to meet her, she reached out to give me a hug
!!!! So I made a joke about it and hugged her and she said see you later *smile* and we walked opposite ways. A year ago I would always see beautiful women and would always be sooo scared to approach. I probably missed out on soon much.
But now it feels great to be able to meet anyone you want or have the opportunity to. Its amazing. I could never ever think of doing this a few years ago, in fact I always thought you had to have some special line to use on women. When really all you need is a hello and simple smile. Its trully amazing.
Most guys lose hope because after learning this stuff their failure rate is higher than there success. But the important thing to realize is that its not about all about failure and success. Its about seizing the opportunity. You only have that one shot and if you don't take it...how do you know if you'll miss?
Thanks guys for reading my first journal entry. Stay tuned and leave feedback!