Just a little side note before I get bad replies, I did use the search bar before typing this subject. I'm keeping this seperate from my journal because it is a small and seperate issue I want to handle. Over the last few days I've hit a dead end and slowed down a bit. I'm feeling a little down because I've failed my math class again
, makes you feel incompetent sometimes, but I don't view it that way. At any rate, regardless of my issue, I did still do a few approaches though not as many as I would do on a normal day. I notice one thing about most of my interactions with both men and women. I somehow skip over the whole rapport building thing. For example, I talked to this one girl and I was getting cool with her for a minute but it's almost as if she is uninterested in talking to me. I'm fine with that, there's always more fish in the sea, but my general question is.
How do you turn a person from random person you just met to friend? I actually do wanna be friend zoned by some women because I need people to hang out with and go out to the club with. I've only been outside of school with a person once, and the rest of the time I haven't made any friends inside of my uni. I need to make some more miscellaneous friendships and need a little help doing this. I feel like the part I'm missing the most in most of my interactions is Rapport. There is no commonality.
What are you thoughts?