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Author:  Usernam [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  She has a boyfriend... not so sure ?
So hi, i'm in a really weird position right now.
I have some really great time with a girl recently, we get closer to each other physicaly.
During the date, I start the kino escalation, she respond positively, we were really close to each other, i was carressing her leg, her arm, her back, i was doing great. She was also playing with me, she was touching my hair, she had jump on my back, she was touching my hand my arm...

Until this "weird" moment totaly not congruent with the rest of the date:
She was trying to punch me in my abs, so i pinch her back, so we start playing with each other, she start slapping my butt, so i did it to... And we are finally together right on the floor, in a spoon position and she start acting really weird: she was like trying to prevent herself by hiding her mouth with her hair and her scarf. And she was totaly freeze out. I did speak with her, holding her hand, touching her back... But she was refusing any eye contact with me. So after waiting like 5 minutes maybe i says to her " Look at me: are you scared ? " She respond that no, but she wasnt explaining why she was reacting like that.

I mean, she was seducing me the whole date, i didnt rush anything, evrything the date was natural, i never push anything until this kind of Last Minute Resistence.

So i respect her reaction, and she said to me: " I hope you not be weird about it tomorow..." and I respond to her " Not a chance I just think that weird the way you react..."

And on the evening she finally send me this text: " I'm sorry but... i have a boyfriend"

So here we are: The Boyfriend his really the reason behing this really weird reaction, or did i do something wrong ( By reading what i wrote, what do you think ?)

I just want to learn and understand about this situation, i don't want to keep her or whatever... If she wants me, she will know that i'm ok with her.

Thanks
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She has a boyfriend... not so sure ?
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I just want to learn and understand about this situation, i don't want to keep her or whatever... If she wants me, she will know that i'm ok with her.

Thanks
Okay, she is/was attracted to you, at least in the moment. She felt guilty and a shield went up. She did not want to be the one responsible for what was about to happen.

you cannot go back in time and fix that situation.

Just tell her; That's fine I'm sure your bf is cool, we were just hanging out as friends anyway, that's what friends do, so if you want to hang out again let me know!

Then don't call or text for a while, see what happens. If she contacts you again to hang out, it's game on!
Author:  Usernam [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:00 pm ]
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New postPosted: Today at 3:24 pm Post subject: Re: She has a boyfriend... not so sure ? Reply with quote
Usernam wrote:

I just want to learn and understand about this situation, i don't want to keep her or whatever... If she wants me, she will know that i'm ok with her.

Thanks


Okay, she is/was attracted to you, at least in the moment. She felt guilty and a shield went up. She did not want to be the one responsible for what was about to happen.

you cannot go back in time and fix that situation.

Just tell her; That's fine I'm sure your bf is cool, we were just hanging out as friends anyway, that's what friends do, so if you want to hang out again let me know!

Then don't call or text for a while, see what happens. If she contacts you again to hang out, it's game on!

That's what i did basicly and we are going to see each other sunday... So game on I guess
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