So I was speaking to Juice24 (great at dancefloor game) about my anxiety to approach on the dancefloor. He let me know that I was doing everything right on the dancefloor and that I just had to grow a pair and make the approaches. Pretty great advice
So I was out over Christmas in a few clubs and was trying to pluck up the courage to make the approaches. I was still having problems with it but I made a few approaches just wishing people Happy Christmas etc. I wouldn’t have even done this before so it’s a start
Anyways, thank god for girls with mistletoe. A girl near me on the dancefloor was holding some mistletoe over her head, I caught her eye, she held the contact so I just walked over and started making out with her. It happened so fast that I didn’t even register in my brain what had just happened till mid way through making out.
I now defiantly understand the importance of the three-second rule. My brain didn’t have anytime to create anxiety and the pay off was brilliant
I love it when things like this happen and a penny just drops in my head.
Next time I’m out I will defiantly be using the rule to good measure.
I’ll report on how it goes in my next post.
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