Wanna wish everyone a happy new year before starting my topic!
May not be a problem, might be very obvious, but still need your thoughts on what went "wrong". I dont want to write it in dialouge form, will take forever.
New years eve, party, me and a HB 9,5. Started of by negging her (was necassary) to lower her to my level (she had turned down guys before me). After that we had a nice long talk, it was really easy to talk with her and she felt really comfortable with me.
After the talk we moved to a more private place, being her request, not mine. And thats when i started to use games and kinos.
One thing I used was the ring-game. For those who have not heard about this game, its a personality game depending on which finger you have a ring on. (ill be glad to post it if requested). Anyhow, everything went smooth and I even got to use my favourite kinos: waist, fingers, arms and it became very sexual between us. She was laughing, playing with her hair, licking her lips, giving me compliments, playing with my hands, but most memorable, she disqualified her friend. (I had to disqualify her friend a couple of times. But eventually a friend of mine helped me)
I decided to k-close, but shit hit the fan
. (done it before succesfully). I think it was something i said. If i remember it correclty it was: Me:"Lets say we got the crazy idea to kiss an...."
Her:"Well my "boyfriend" would not like that"
It felt like a smack in the face (note that it was still sexual, she was playing with my hands/fingers and we were inches away from each other). I went in freeze-mode and did not know how to continue. Her friend came back and did the killing blow. My target was sorry and said that things would have been different if she had no boyfriend. But it felt so confusing, everything went according to the plans but she still screwed me over, how come? What went wrong? (Note that her "bf" was located 300km away from her in another party)
Sorry if it became a wall of text, just had alot of important things to add.