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| Author: | Ptown [ Thu Dec 29, 2011 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | where did i go wrong? |
With new years coming me and a couple friends headed to the party destinations of aus. Over 3 nights my plan was to go for 3 lays and so far after day1 im behind. Confidence definitely wasnt a problems but maybe it was the logistics u guys tell me. With a few convos with girls walking down the streets of brisbane my night started off with me meeting this cute brunette petite girl with nice tits in the girls bathroom cos i saw no sign and went with it lol. she was keen to teach me how to dance to latin music and after a bit of flirting and dancing i number closed her cos we were leaving to another club, gave her a kiss and sent her a msg 30min later saying "hey. . Heading to the city, keen for drinks later want to hear your sexy accent again" Got no response 2nd club was flirting with two girls at the bar but had my eye on one of them. She was one of those that didnt look amazing but was fucking hot as hell. her friend said she had a bf so i asked her and she hesitated and said hes just a friend. Straight away i went direct got her numb and gave her mine she was definitely into me i regret leaving cos i msgd her later saying "hey come meet me wherever u r i know your keen" with no response and later saw her with her 'friend'. Still had great night flirting with tons of other girls but no fucking success walking back to the hotel with my head between my legs. I feel maybe i was trying to daygame in a nightclub and shouldnt number close but stay and escalate or my text game sucks? Either way got two days left need advice fellas point out my mistakes otherwise il be sticking my dingus in a wasps nest tomorrow to get action. |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 12:51 pm ] |
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perhaps they didnt get back to you because you didnt create the right kind of impact with your targets. but also i think that you texted them way too soon and being too eager for them to come and see you for a drink. best to play it cool. also at the beginning of your first text to a girl, call them by a nickname, something related to the conversation about her e.g. hey ms lazy fat ass. gets them in the same mood as they were when u saw the girl, and put your first name at the end of the text. therefore she'll recognize the name you called her and put your name at the end of the text, then she'll remember who you are without trying really hard to maker her remember you. perhaps in your flirting you should incorporate some teasing in the sense that she's the one trying to pick you up. alot of the time, girls say to guys that they have a bf because you tried to pick them up in the wrong way. also when you were with two girls, you needed one of your friends at that point to occupy the friend so that you can isolate your target. in addition, perhaps you care too much about getting laid 3 days in a row and thats affecting your focus. try not to give a shit if you do or dont. just say to yourself "so what if i dont get laid, i still had an awesome time with my mates". the more you care less, the more you'll be focused on your game and get success. |
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| Author: | Ptown [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 1:25 am ] |
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Hey mickey cheers for the reply. I read a post somewhere else that getting numbers in clubs are pretty pointless because the girl usually flakes which in my experience is true. Got a msg back from the first one in the morning but as i was leaving to another city it didnt matter. I thought about and my problems were ejecting and not escalating. I was too focused on just having a good time that i completely fucking forgot to escalate with anyone! Asyou said i needed a mate to occupy the friend, i actually introduced him then he drifted away. I was able to keep both girls engaged by myself but now im realising how bad my mates are as wingmen. They dont approach at all and somehow expect women to come up to them. When im out meeting new people i feel like im always being judged by them and i think subconsciously this is why ive been ejecting all the time cos all they do is stand there watching and waiting for me. Besides having no luck i still had a good night. Second night ended horribly, my friends philosophy is drink until your drunk as fuck and then keep drinking! As usual they were lurking around my convos and critiqing me. Drinks being forced down my throat ended in me blackout drunk and throwing up multiple times. Bouncers were asking me if i was alright before letting me into places, im sure i was swaying and walking into walls like a dumbass. finally a group from europe i was hanging out with told me to piss off did i go back to the hotel room. I wish i knew a natural wingman my friends r liabilities. This post probably sounds like im complaining but im just venting from frustration. Most blowouts ive had and im in one of the best places in australia lol. One night to go! |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:15 pm ] |
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guys get numbers the whole time in clubs. but whats important is to find a girl thats not too drunk and create a really good impact with them. you can still be with your friends. as you are great with meeting new people. use that to find a wingman, someone who's got your back and knows when to isolate. make this your new years solution. wish you loads of success. happy new year man 
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