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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 8:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Richboy1 field report day 1 in Atlanta |
Day 1 – Atlanta Journal from AFC to PUA Hello everyone I am Richboy1 and my friend/wingman is Johny. This is our first night in Atlanta. We just got back. I would say it was great overall experience we opened 5-7 sets. Talked to girls in the bar and talked to 2 waitresses. I do not think our game is ready for waitresses and hired gun girls yet but overall was good . Quick Introduction. I have dated a few good looking girls at College and high school. I do not have a problem approaching a girl and closing a set. I never tried any of the Mystery stuff on how to pick up girls in the clubs and in public places. So this is my first field report. Johny is about the same age as I am 23. He had a few girlfriends in the past, and just a cool guy to hang out. He dressed up very stylish as well, no homo lol. Why this is important? I think it is kind of obvious because you have to stand out from the rest of the guys in the crowd. First night we went to couple bars in Buckhead. Really nice area. There was a high school reunion party going on. So we opened 2 sets there. Our typical set was for 2-4 minutes. First johny opeed a set in the first bar that we went to. Apperently he knew the girls there and one girl remembered him from last night. I talked to a waitress there and then we talked to a few more girls outside. Then we went to the bar with that high school reunion. The party was going okay a lot of girls. The problem that I have no dhv to follow up after the opener. I would ask smth like do you think it is okay to break up with a girl over text message? Then wait for her response. The response usually be yes no maybe they say couple sentances or not. First thing that kind of hit me was what should I do next. I did not have any dhv stories ready. So next time I go out I will make some stories and practice them while at home. It is very important to have a partner. So I talked to Johny and we came up with some dhv stories. When we opened a two set. I think it was my opener, I forget it half way, so I asked Johny to help me finish it (in a playful manaer). Thanks god he had it memorized. I thought the girls would laugh but they actually listened and responded. It is not that hard as what most people think when you are approaching a girl. And we split a set, while Johny was talking to one girl, I was talking to another. We had about 2 minutes on that one. Than we went to a dif bar. Talked to a very cute waitress there, bought 2 beers, and then ask her to come to a party with us, but she said no. Maybe we did not build enough attraction. And finally at the end we met 2 girls from germany. One was a little fat but the other one was hot. We started talking to them (easy set) and Johny talked to them some more. So it finished with Johny making out with the hot one. And I observed from the side and kind of tell him to escalate kino and move her to a dif location. I pretty much helped him to close a set. Next day we go out. I need to have my stories ready to go. This is important. Here is how it works open the set- opener, then neg the girls and start kino right away. If there is more than 2 girls in the set get them engage and start telling them story by engaging al of them. More kino. I have to check into routines – routines might help later down the road right now, I need to build up attraction. After the set is open and attraction is there, I can move the set to a dif location either in the bar or to some other place. Change of location is important. I have to get to that stage next time. After we moved them to a dif location more kino. Also the way Mystery teaches is you have to neg the girl that you like and talk to the other one by completely ignoring the first one. I have to practice more negging and dhv. Otherwise was pretty good experience. |
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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 6:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seattle filed report 1 |
recently moved to seattle. So this will be my first field report. I have been mostly doing night game, and there has been a lot of slow activity. Finally get connected with a group through meetup so we did some sarging this weekend. 10/6/12 – Salsa night in Seattle by RichBoy Great event. And I felt like it went well and I accomplished a lot. My friend introduced me to this one. I know a little bit of salsa, and apparently there are a lot of salsa dances going around. Well if you did not know - this is the best place to meet new folks and build new relationships. Approaching is very easy. You do not have to use any openers at all just come and ask for a dense. This post will be much shorter than my previous - I will start with pains, opportunities, and then talk a little bit about openers. I danced with 10-12 different girls through out the night and haxd a lot of great conversations. I m definetely going again to finish what i started and try to keep the sets running longer, follow up on conversations, and k-close and number close a few sets. PAINS: 1- Comfort building and moving the target – follow up after you danced with a girl, befriend her friends, and then isolate her. 2- Approach girls that are sitting around – over the shoulder approach – discovery part – who they came with, introduce me to your friends 3- less water breaks – more meaningful conversations. 4- More kino, phone close, k-close, s-close – next step? 5- teaser approach – good way to keep the conversation going – do some research on it. Opportunities: 1- Girls that are sitting around –great targets to approach and find out what they think about the event, who they came with, introduce me to your friends if they came with friends. 2- Dance floor- going from one set to another set. And following up on the ones that had a good conversation. Openers – pretty easy, just like in high school you have to ask the girl to dance. The ones that are standing around the dance floor want to dance. The ones that are sitting down – it depends on the situation. Some of them want to hang out with their friend and not looking for a dance, and others were open for sucking, I meant dancing... |
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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 5:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | first pua/asp class |
10/14/12 First ASP class with Spence and Walter. Great class and it was a great night for sarging. PAINS: *more practice before going out again next Saturday. Know and be able to run multiple approaches – direct, indirect, and situational. *more practice. Open as many sets as possible, and go from one set to another. *have dhv, cold reed, and openers ready- this will help with approach anxiety. Good things: *Reviewed different types of openers, transition, cold read and dhv- opening sets and building comfort stages did a little bit of practice – 15m, and then went in the field. Approached 5 sets – short conversations, mostly openers or indirect convos how’s your night going so far, that worked well for me. Get some good feedback from Martin and found a good wing to go out and practice material. I am taking another class next week and then another day of sarging. |
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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 3:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Cowgirls night |
10/21/12 sarging at Cowgirls. Pains: *I need to approach more sets and have some material ready that I can use in the field. *I need to stay throughout the night – 4 hours and go and open set after set. Good Things: I took another class about approaching women in bars that was awesome. Andi Andresen, a pua who taught the class talked about having the right mind set as well as state of mind, and fashion looks before you go out and approach. It is also important to have goals and know where you want to go and what you want to accomplish. I felt really good about the class and now I just need to get more practice in the field. CowGirls experience – I did not approach a lot of sets. There were a group of girls outside the bar that I spoke with. Well they opened me up. There was another girl that I talked briefly who was leaving mechanical bull. There were a lot of girls on the dance floor, as well as sitting around. The place was really loud and it was hard to hear what everybody was saying. Also there were 2 girls that were staying on the corner a little bit intoxicated that I chatted briefly, and then I left them. … I definitely need to put more effort next time I go out. |
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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 6:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seattle field report 3 Nov 9th 2012 |
11/9-11/12. I went out Friday, Saturday and Monday. My original goal was to go out 3 times a week. Right now I am going out 4 times a week. It almost became my part time job because this weekend because I spend so much time in the field, but it feels good. I had to skip my Judo practice this week and last week because I want to concentrate all of my energy on PUA. Friday night – went in the field with Spence. I did not do any approaches, but I joined Spence on the approaches that he made. He got it down pretty good. He did not use any of the mystery stuff to kino escalate but he escalated it verbally really good. Interesting points: 1) Approaching did not feel like a scary thing anymore. I felt like it was fun. 2) Spence had a lot of cool stories to tell about traveling, South America, salsa dancing, volunteer work, and he led every set by asking questions towards these stories. 3) He also did not spend much time on each story but jumped from story to story, so it felt like the time flew by really quick. 4) also we did not use a lot of peacocking – so it was not like we stand out in the club. I start slowly change my wardrobe to more tighter cloth, and more flashy but still classy. Pains: 1) I need to push myself to open sets. I did not have any approach anxiety when Spence opened the set. But I still find it hard to open sets myself. Goal – feel more comfortable opening sets by the end of this week. Be ready with openers. 2) Develop Interesting stories that will flip attraction triggers. 3) Practice Saturday night – we had a social psychology class and then went out in a field with a few more experienced guys. Opened 1 set. I did not feel like pushing myself and opening sets. Goal – push myself every night. Opening sets is fun and exciting. Monday Night – Salsa night – great event and a lot of fun. Danced with 10-15 women. Spoke after the dance with 6-7. Good conversation, went for a number close. More multithreading and more dhvs to spike attraction. |
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| Author: | Richboy1 [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 4:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seattle PUA |
1/20/12 – field report – Ballard night. I felt like it was a great night. We had 10 people who stopped by. After a short introduction at Matador, since there were no spots at the La Carta De Oaxaca, we hit some of the hottest venues in Ballard. I felt like the environment was great. When I was leaving Café La Carta, a set of 8 women who were sitting at the same table where we are, were checking me out. So when I was about to leave, I opened them with “since you guys took our table, now we have to go and find a dif. place”. We had a quick conversation, and since my friends left already, and I was standing there, I start moving away as well. After dinner we split into 2 groups. Clint took one group to People’s pub, and I took the rest of the guys to Belmar. There were a few women that I talked to. I opened a single set who ended waiting for her boyfriend who was standing RIGHT BEHIND ME…. Ooppss… oh well I smiled and said “have a good night” to both of the them… Then I helped Michael one of the guys who read about the game online by introducing him to the set that I opened. It was great, he took the conversation over, but I instead of staying in the set, bounced looking for other sets to open. My goal for the night was to help the new guys- and I did get a lot of questions on what to say, when approaching a girl, and how to move it to a more interesting conversation. Pains: 1. Staying in the set and running the material. This is my biggest pain so far. I had a good opportunity with 4-5 sets that night. I opened 3 of these sets, and the rest I was introduced to. I have a tendency to drift away after a while, and I NEED to stay and run the material that I have already. Also the longer the conversation with a women or a group of women the more feeling it creates and excitement to open other sets. 2. OPEN sets – just go and say something. By now I have a lot of material. I do have canned openers, stories, etc. I do not freeze out any more, but for some reason once in while I use old boring “how’s your night going” .. and sometimes it gets the conversation going, but I should try something more interesting on Europe, Travel, Dancer, etc. 3. Moving sets, etc. I feel pretty comfortable about it – but need to work more on this next time. |
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