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Author:  jericho400 [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  FU: First night out.

ok quick back story bullshit before I talk about tonight.
I've done 3 approaches my entire life.
the first one was in grade school, I didn't even say much. The next day her father came to school and called me to the principles office and shit. It was retarded but that's how shit goes down sometimes where I live.
The second one was freshman year in college. we were both looking for a job at the university work office or what ever. I was looking at the postings and she came near me to look at them as well. I go "that's a lot of jobs". she just walks away.
Third, I got this telemarketing job in the summer 4 years ago. I got my station right next to this HB9. Bam. I work on everything for about 2 weeks. She was laughing I was helping her with her calls and anxiety. One day she says "Do you go out on saturday?" and I said "No I just sit at home and play on my playstation" she "uhu" me "mhm" and then I don't remember ever seeing her again.

So that's me. Now I am gonna talk about today.

I said I have to do this newbie test today, I have been dancing around it for a week. I need to break free of these AFC chains.
Shower,new clothes, cologne, cash, gum. I was ready to go.
I took a bus to the biggest mall in the fucking country. I was serious.
I arrived there at 7, which is a perfect time. Cruising, strolling, walking. Lots of eye contact, no balls. All of them were sets, I can't say hi to singles and you want me to say hi to sets? fuck that, take it slow this is what this about, practice, ramping it up.
I keep cruising, strolling, walking. Lots of eye contact, no balls. Forget it, just go home read more or something.
Back at the bus stop to home. This HB6 standing alone. Gives me a look and then looks away and takes to steps to the side.
Ok I say to myself, she is alone there aren't a lot of people here. Open her now.
Sure enough, I am pouncing at that feeling. GOGOGOGOGO.
Me : "is this the bus stop for blah blah blah?"
HB6 : "yup"
Me: " are you here waiting for that bus?"
HB6 : "yup"
Me : "you know what, I actually know that the bus comes here, you are so hot I just wanted to say hi"
There weren't any good signs that this was going anywhere even before I dropped that last line, but hey might as well say it if I am already talking.
Her reaction was she took 2 steps to the side without replying to that line. I took one step in that direction and just stood there looking at her with a small smile. she turned around and walked the fuck away from me like I was a leper or something.
I got a strange feeling. A feeling of "LOL did I just scare that girl?" That's crazy. I wasn't embarrassed one bit. There were some people who might have caught what had happened, all I could think of doing was telling them "did you see what just happened here?" I didn't I just threw it over my shoulder and continued on with my evening.

I walked to the next stop because that's just the first thing that came to my mind after what went down at the last stop. I took the bus back home.

There is a little bit of a cafe/food court thing near where I live and I thought maybe I should go there.

Again, cruising, strolling, walking. Nothing. Then it came to me. I'm just gonna sit down on this huge ledge/bench thing and look for any HB walking alone and maybe then I can do the same as last time.
Then this HB walked by me (giving what I believe was a IOI, eye cintact + hair flick) and over to the set of 2 to my right. the set originally was 1 HB and 1 guy. so now they are 2 HBs and 1 Dude. I thought for a bit and said fuck it.
The whole set moved past me. I forgot about the whole deal. Cool, this whole ledge/bench thins is for me now.
not more than 5 minutes later, they come back. This time that HB says "ok lets just sit down for 10 minutes and then leave" right in front of me. hmmmm.
they sit down at the same spot as before. I go to myself I am gonna approach this set. I start thinking of something to say. As soon as my brain started going "it is never gonna work" I jumped and approached like a fucking boss.
Me:"Hey guys!"
Set:"eh.. hi?"
Me:"I don't want to sound weird but do need her?" (pointing at the HB from earlier call her HB1)
Dude:"What?"
Me:"I said do you need her?"
HB1:"What do you mean, I don't understand"
Me:"well it looks like you 2 were sitting here" (pointing at dude and HB2) "And then she comes in and now you are three. I am alone and so is HB1, get it?"
note that I looked HB2 in the eye and saw the puppy eyes but I didn't pounce
HB1:"please leave before I call the security on you"
Dude:"no there is no need for security, just leave bro"
I wanted to make fun of what the HB said given how fucking stupid it was. but I didn't
Me:"well , its not big deal, its cool, c u"
and I leave.


So I opened a single and a set and failed at both. But I didn't feel anything at all after those 2 rejections or what ever.

What I learned.
From the single: I think I was way too creepy and I think she had never talked to guys and is an AFC. But let me tell you this, that HB could be a 10 if she just opens up.
From the set: I approached it the complete opposite way. I know that because the HB2 was the one that gave me the "talk to me" look. I also failed massively in a shit test. As for the dude, I could feel that he was surprised and embarrassed at what I did. I stepped in his territory and the only thing that stopped me was the HB I was hitting on and not him. I alphad the shit out of that dude.

Summary:
I am creepy as hell.
I should keep thinking of shit tests as just that, tests. Not rejections.
Remember how to open sets like a pro.
Think about what you wanna say and as soon as you start thinking about bad reactions, run and open ASAP
I feel nothing when I get rejected, I just walk out like a baws.
I have what it takes, I went on the newbie mission, and just opened.


Peace!

Author:  neyos [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 11:52 pm ]
Post subject: 

don't use lines/methods from porn movies!
hang out with a few homosensational friends if you have any. after a while you'll be able to walk, act and talk like them. you don't have to become a fag; it's not contageous!
just learn their social skills. soak it up..with your guts it'll be a piece of cake to score once you've become a pseudo-gay.

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