So, I got an invitation to a party which I decided to go to. I decided to got here alone, but had another party to go to first, which was just a couple of friends hanging out. 3 girls and a dude.
I got there and immediatly elevated the mood there. Everyone laughed with me, and I gave time to other people to speak up and share whatever they were saying. I had not planned for it, but I got drunk fairly quickly since there was a girl there who insisted to give me Wine and I didn't really think about it just took the offering. Didnt got that drunk though, a bit tipsy..
I gut IOI's from basiclly everyone. We sat around a table and meanwhile we had conversation the girl next to me tended to squeeze my leg once a while. We took pictures with another girls camera, kissing eachother and hugged. When one of the girls got out of the chairs I took her chair (it was more comfortable) and when she got back she sat in my lap and clearly had no problems at all with my hands resting on the inside of her legs. She was very warm and we cuddled in a "subtile" way if you know what I mean.
Anyways, it all went good. I didn't make out with any of them, to be honest, I didn't have the balls to do it. We are friends since way back and this was a completely new approach to how our recent relationship has been. But I got kisses on the cheek from one of them, and hugs from another, and on our way in to city-center they grabbed my arms on each side and there I was walking with 2 girls like some sort of a pimp.
I got to the party and started to approach other women. And I got to say that I had some problems. I spotted a, perhaps 7. Maybe 8, (not sure of what you call them here, but I mean, she was about 7-8 in the "hotty" scale). And I saw that she was chatting to a girl that I knew so I went to them and engaged conversation with the girl I knew. I told her to introduce me to the Hot one and she did. I sat there and we began to talk. I actually did the "think of a number between 1-10" and it actually worked. She thought of 7 and glared at me with a mezmerising look. Thing is. From there, I had no idea what to do. I just sat there, looked down the table and went "yeah, well... yeah...". Then we didnt conversate, and I talked to other people, then got back in conversation with her about everyday stuff. She gave me some IOI's. Like, the way she looked at me. She smiled and leened her head in a way that I could not sense was nothing else but attraction. Even though, it seemed as if there was some sort of "barricade" there. Not that it wasnt pleasent talking to her, but I mean, we never really made it to second base so to speak. We just talked, and I dont know...
anyways. I found out later when she left, that she had a boyfriend. Maybe that was it. I maybe should have asked her if she was seeing someone. Im not sure. I did my best anyhow.
later on I met this sort of fat chick. About a "2" that said that she was a Coach in sexual intercourse. We talked and I thought that It was possible to make intercourse with her. Maybe I took her for granted, because when she asked me what I was "thinking about" I told her that I saw myself being coached by her sexually, (like, that we was having sex and she showed me new stuff I dont know) and I asked her where she lived. She lived about 5 minutes away. We looked eachother in the eyes for more than 3 seconds, and I thought, maybe I'll try make out with her. She pulled back though (ouch....) and laughed a bit at me. Seconds later she asked her friend if she wanted to make out and in front of me they made out for like, minutes. Then I really dont remember what happened, but she seemed like she wasnt interested in sex so I left.
In the end, I went home alone.
Anyways. Not sure of what to make of this. But if I could have travelled back in time I would have wished that the conversation could have lasted longer with the hottie, after doing the "magic trick" with her. It went sort of quiet after that, and I couldn't think of stuff to talk about with her. I have been thinking that I could talk about stuff that actually interests me, but I have realized that this is far beyond what is actually "do-able" on the field. I mean, when I start to talk about what actually interests me they all go sort of totally quiet and like, it just feels wrong. It is as if I need to earn theyre trust just a little bit more to start talking about my everyday life. I dont know.... Thats how it went anyways.
NLP interests me, and I did a "technique" on a girl on the first party. I took her back to a "sweet memory" and she clearly enjoyed it. I stood ther, rubbing her shoulders and she just smiled and enjoyed herself while I instructed her to keep on focusing on good times. In the end I told her to think about something completely irrelevant, and then I put my hand on her shoulder again (hoping that she would associate with good vibes) but either she didn't, or I didn't give her enough time to associate. Because she went like "huh?" and I had to explain the whole process to her. It was good though, just standing there and knowing that she was in a soft spot and I just enjoyed watching her enjoy it. It was really good. I liked it.
Leave any comments or thoughts. I will proceed to figure out new things that I can use as "openers" and so forth, like maybe more magic tricks or like, I dont know. Stuff that is mezmerising so that I get the womens attention on the spot.