This FR is from about a month ago, but i wanted to post since im new to this forum.
Last night I traveled to Denver for some sarging (an hour drive). I went alone and went to a few clubs. I got all warmed up and was in the zone. After a successful set I was talkin to some dudes, who went and bought me a drink. I saw an approach invitation from this cute girl, she had to be 40. HB8 though. Went straight in, kinda direct actually and then occupied her with active disinterest with my new friends that just bought me a shot.
Did some heavy kino and she was all over me. Asked her when she was gonna buy me a drink and she told me I had to buy her one. I turned to my friends and took the shot with them. Now she was chasing, so I took her to the dance floor and kissed her. Had some fun and returned to the bar, where I locked in and had her qualify herself to me. She bought me a drink. I could tell it was on and this chick was down. So I asked if she wanted to get outta there. She said yes.
Here is where some issues came up. She went and talked to her friends and I could tell her friends didnt approve. So i befriended them, they liked me, but they still werent gonna let me leave with her. She was trying to convince them, but the really problem was that this girls house keys were at her friends house, and my house was an hour away. So I stayed, i agreed with her friends, showing that i wasnt chasing an outcome and it would be fine if we didnt go back to her place. I said "i get it. you gotta look out for your friends". I also did a cold read on my target, conveying that she is her own person, very independent and can make her own decisions, but very subtley. Dont remember exactly how it went, but it was money. Then the club closed so I waited with her group outside for the taxi. There was another guy about my age, hitting on one of her married friends, you could tell that she was interested, but this guy kept acting needy and constantly gave me a high five as if what was going on was a big deal. I could tell it wasnt gonna happen with him and her.
She was definitely down. Kept asking if I was sure I wanted to go to her house. Then we talked about how she would have to give me a ride back to my car in the morning she was all cool with that, so I knew it was on.
So then the cab rolled up and there was just enough room for me. My target and I held hands there and I stopped outside because her friends were disapproving. I said sure thats cool, no big deal. My target begged and pleaded, but they werent budging (4 other girls). She kissed me goodbye.
Then I remembered I got her number so I texted seeing if she would reinitiate a meetup after she left her friends. Texted her and she called saying she wanted to meetup. i said sure just tell me where to go. then I heard her friends again blocking me saying they werent giving me the address. So I said cool nice meeting you.
Then I figured maybe she would leave her friends to go to her house so I texted, "meet at ur house?" Got a call again and she was still at her friends house, appeared she would stay there and at this point I was on the highway along way away from them with a drive ahead of me so I said nice meeting you but I gotta get driving back home.
Probably one of my best nights out. I wonder if I could have done that any better.
For instance i could have:
A)Pushed more towards going to my car, maybe get a hotel room? Oh and make her pay for it
B)Pushed her friends more, maybe just hop in the taxi without giving a fuck
C)Try to leave earlier with her to my car and meet again with her friends later to get her house keys?
I dont know I thought I did that pretty well, but I didnt get the girl, so something coulda been done. A place to stay the night woulda been tight too, instead of a long drive home.