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| Author: | Riott [ Sat Jan 01, 2011 9:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | The Importance of Abundance |
Hey guys, I'd like to talk about something that I feel is really important to becoming really succesful with women. I'm talking about abundance, and in which having multiple women in your life makes it easier to approach, talk to- and get other women interested in you. I feel this is really important due to several reasons. Have you ever noticed that when you have a girlfriend, or when you're seeing someone that there seems to be a lot more girls interested in you? That's one effect of having abundance. The act of you not reallying trying, or seeming non-interested is attractive to girls because it goes on the principle of you want what you can't have. By having even one other option when talking to another girl it can take off an incredible amount of anxiety. I find this true due to the fact that when you have other options, the one presented in front of you isn't such a big deal. I've seen a lot of guys put so much importance on one approach, and it kills them. You can fake all you want that this one doesn't matter, but at the end of the day if she's the only option in your life you're going to try so hard it's going to seep out your pores. Women aren't stupid. They can see when someone clearly is trying hard and often it's unnattractive. When one has abundance, it really doesn't matter what this particular girl thinks. She can stay or walk and at the end of the day- why do you care? You have five other girls who would drop almost anything to come see you. When you don't try as hard, you don't put much value on this particular situation- you just don't care. When you don't care you take risks that normally you would never think of doing because you're too afraid it might scare her off, or you might blow it. The bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. Some people might not have a lot of women in their life at a particular moment. It happens to me all me time. When this happens, I try to interanlize that feeling of abundance- that feeling of not putting too much pressure on myself to make this work and play it safe, and have that feeling of at the end of the day that whether she stays or walks- I still have five girls knocking down my door to hang out with me- and be with me. The mindset of abundance overall has helped improve my game so much and I thought I'd share with you guys. Hope this helps- |
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| Author: | snowy220 [ Mon Jan 03, 2011 10:38 pm ] |
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This is great buddy thanks, I have been feeling shit around some rejection from three seperate sources and one has really eaten up way too much of my thinking time. I think I invested a lot into this and held an expectation of an outcome. If I had had several options at that point I would not have felt so bad when the hammer of rejection fell. Lesson learned. |
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